@tiarnehayley: If your pregnant or you have young kids you need to know this Do whatever you want to do they are your kids and it is your life. Don't take shitty advice from parents because they think they know better. The most powerful thing you can do as a mother is learn to trust yourself in every aspect because people are always going to have opinions and you're always going to see conflicting things online. There is no right or wrong way to parenting and there's no such thing as a perfect mother or parent. you do you. #mumlife #australianmums #pregnancy
Yes I think this is underrated parenting advice: if you don’t introduce it then you don’t have to manage it 😅
2026-08-24 08:03:07
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Julia :
I think the modeling behavior has to be the most important part right? Like no screen time means your young kids cannot see you doom scrolling on your phone. No eating in the car? You also can’t eat in the car. That has to be the hardest part for parents.
2026-08-24 13:49:08
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Tylah Triffett :
My 2 years old doesn’t know it’s an option to be out of the pram in a shop, going to keep it like that for as long as I can
2026-08-24 06:46:34
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Alyssa 👽 :
Kids are fully customizable!
2026-08-24 15:56:41
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Briana ❁ :
3 months into being a parent, we’ve never coslept and she sleeps 12 hours straight
2026-08-24 23:54:46
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Grace :
100% We don’t do kids’ music in the car. I honestly can’t stand it 😂 We have a TONI at home and he can play kids music if he wants. It plays music at a low volume, and I can walk away from it when I need to.
He absolutely loves listening to our music and rocks out to it in the car. He knows no different. We all get to keep our sanity!
2026-08-24 03:06:58
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April :
This is why I keep telling my husband to not give our son a taste of his soda. If he doesn't know soda exists, he won't ask for it!
2026-08-24 10:47:21
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emicakes5 :
Truly thinking back to my childhood I never ate in the car, and always listened to my moms music. Never thought twice about it
2026-08-24 21:44:08
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itsthelifeonmars :
Totally agree. I genuinely roll my eyes when someone says just wait just wait. Like wait for what? I have boundaries now as an adult for me. I’m sure as hell able to have boundaries and just never introduce something to a child. If it doesn’t exist in your life and home it’s so non issue.
2026-08-24 14:39:21
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ellie 🫶 :
But one thing to keep in mind is if you for example “don’t want your kids having screen time” stick to it. Because that’s how you save yourself. Don’t go “oh just this one time because it makes life easy now” because it makes life harder later. And it’s never “just this once” you’ve exposed your child to something they will want. And it’s easy to not give a child something that they aren’t asking for compared to want they are screaming for it
2026-08-24 08:29:23
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t :
i’m a firm believer in the RADIO. our kids need to be exposed to the pop culture of today and yesterday!!!
2026-08-24 15:42:58
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Shammalammaa :
Heavy on the music part!!! I’ve got a loooong daily drive, I will not be listening to baby shark the whole time lol
2026-08-24 20:23:53
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ev 🧚🏽♀️ :
why would you rob your kid of children’s music in the car 😭 it’s such a simple joy
2026-08-24 19:51:31
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Lanzilla :
Literally this!!! I don’t play wiggles. Never have never will
2026-08-24 06:41:52
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kelligreene5 :
My 2yo always gets praised by others for wearing a hat or beanie. It’s just always been a non negotiable for outside
2026-08-24 07:46:29
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candlewaxbones :
Oh yeah my kid will not even know “kid’s music” is a thing. I had no idea until I was an adult and saw a kid’s bop cd for the first time and said wtf is this???
2026-08-24 16:20:21
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Nan :
I’m with you on the music, we have a strict no phones in car and no kids/silly music. My daughter has a playlist of songs that we play but it’s all like Taylor Swift, Miley Cyrus etc. songs that I also like 👍
2026-08-25 03:18:16
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Monique :
When I was a nanny I had a rule the kids had to be sitting at the table/in high chair to eat - no walking around the living room with food. The mess was contained and they didn’t know any different. It was the best, I’m now doing it with my own baby because I can’t stand finding food and crumbs everywhere
2026-08-24 21:42:07
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cl_hoe_ :
Also that you’re allowed to say no to your kids! However if you ever give in even once, they will plead until they hear yes
2026-08-25 14:50:49
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Rokayyy_ :
At the risk of sounding like one of those old ppl- we didn’t have kids music to play at will in the car when I was growing up. We just listened to the radio and it was fine. Like the good old oldies are so nostalgic now
2026-08-24 15:35:13
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Casey Tobin :
I have a 1 year old and another soon to arrive, PLEASE give me other things to do, parenting is just marketing I love it. Hard agree with kids music in the car, soft drinks will only exist at parties WHAT ELSE
2026-08-24 09:45:53
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Danie Boop ⭐️ :
I didnt have an iPad growing up and was fine. And my dad was a pastor, so I had to sit through mutable services, meetings, dinners, etc. I have raging ADHD too haha. Just bring a coloring book
2026-08-25 17:12:13
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Maddie🖤 :
I’m being so fr, as a dog mom entering the family planning stage: training kids is literally the same as a dog until they reach a certain mental age. My dog never begged for food because it was a strict rule: he isn’t fed people food and if he is, it goes in his dish, not under the table. He only started begging once a former friend started sneaking him shit under the table.
2026-08-24 20:09:20
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Katie💗 :
This is what I’ve been trying to tell my mum! Going off at me because I won’t let my one year old have ice cream, chocolate, chips lollies and juice … mate he doesn’t know it exists what’s the fucking difference I don’t HAVE to give it to him 🙄
2026-08-24 12:19:55
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