@tjshimeld: 🌈 The first step when I came out when I was 29 years old was to tell someone. I told my best friend: my wife.😳 ❌ I didn’t have a plan. ❌ I didn’t know what the future would bring. ❌ I didn’t know if we would get divorced. ❌ I didn’t know anything. All I knew was just that one step. And I took it. I told her I don’t know what it means, but I think I’m gay and I wanted her to know. And then, we talked about it.☺️ She approached it with curiosity, not anger because I hadn’t cheated and I had no conclusions about what this meant. My only conclusion was I was gay, or at least bi. And the next step was up to both of us. We remained married for 10 years, then we divorced, co-parented, and remain great friends to this day.❤️💪❤️ I realized to come out as gay I didn’t need to know all the steps, just the next one.👣 And taking it step by step led to my dream life, living in Spain with my husband and daughter. 🇪🇸🥰 ✨Embrace Your MAGIC✨ and ❤️Live Your DREAMS 🌈 #gayfriendly #comingout #gaycouple #gaymenlifecoach #comingoutlaterinlife

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as long as your family accepts who you are, that's all you need 💯
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