@coachalexcormontexback: Are you afraid you won't succeed in getting him back? That fear is exactly what you need to change. Because when you're trying to win back an avoidant while terrified of failing, he feels it twice as strongly. That fear leaks into everything. It tells him you don't know how to connect with him, and it keeps you stuck. Here's something else nobody warns you about. The people around you won't understand this relationship. Even the ones who love you. They watch you go through the roller coaster and they plant seeds of doubt, because from the outside, loving an avoidant makes no sense. So they leave you with this quiet feeling of not being good enough. But that's not the truth. That's just fear talking through you. Two things change everything. Stop trying to explain your relationship to people who can't understand it. And stop chasing constant reassurance. Instead, watch his actions. An avoidant rarely says the words, but he shows love through what he does. Sometimes he needs distance. Other times he does something for you no other man ever has. Then ask yourself one question. What can I do to be happy on my own? Because the moment an avoidant feels no pressure, he gives more. He invests more. He challenges himself to step up. You've been treating him like a "normal" partner, and I understand why. We're taught love should be easy, simple, natural. With an avoidant, it's different. That's exactly why you need to understand how he works. Comment AVOIDANT to get him back in 3 months and I'll send you the free video in DM. #getyourexback #ex #breakupadvice #relationshipadvice

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