Hot take: If a man isn't a good spouse, but a 'good father,' he isn't a good father. Good parents take care of the entire household, not just the fruits of their loins.
2026-08-24 15:02:30
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lorivillanueva886 :
Like your hair makes you look younger 😍😍
2026-08-29 01:02:11
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QBsunflower :
Love your hair but those glasses are karate chopping the blue light away. Lol. The black and white shirt design is a nice touch too.
2026-08-29 01:43:48
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Rachel Allen :
I also want to note, it's good for your children to see you pursuing your best life because it teaches them to pursue their best lives
2026-08-24 13:33:34
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Hallie Schaper Lee :
(If he says no) Have you tried everything you can to make Alaska work? Are you depressed? No shame in taking antidepressants! Also, It would prob help so much if you could figure out how to make some friends!! (I know it can be really hard, I finally found my people after 10 years in our new home state and it has been life changing!) I hope this works out in the best way for you!!
2026-08-27 19:33:13
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babayaga2022 :
leave them with their father
2026-08-27 20:59:28
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BigFace :
After fifteen years aren't those kids all teens? They deserve a say in where they live .
2026-08-24 16:20:13
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Lee :
your hair looks amazing today!
2026-08-24 13:46:11
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303eugene :
Good advice
2026-08-27 12:34:11
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Mandy :
I left Alaska after 30+ years of those winters and only then did I realize exactly how destructive they were to my mental health.
2026-08-24 13:34:08
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sunnysidegig :
This happens all the time. You get stuck where you break up with your co-parent. It's been 11 years for me and I finally feel at peace where I am. I have 4 more years till my youngest graduates.
2026-08-24 13:48:54
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d.bby0 🦦✨ :
If I felt that he as their father would move if he had an opportunity to better his life, I’d put myself first and move. I had a friend who turned down an amazing opportunity just one state away bc her ex was an “involved father”. Well six months later, Mr Father of the Century got a promotion that required him to move to a different company office multiple states away and he took it and left within the month of accepting.
2026-08-24 14:08:56
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Jen :
Thanks for reaffirming confidence in my decision to not get married and drop everything for that marriage.
2026-08-24 14:58:13
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atomicblonde :
that's what happens when you "center" men in your life. 🥺
2026-08-24 15:44:57
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Jewels :
I agree. She should plan on moving and discuss a new parenting plan with the father. Be open-minded about how it will go, but know that she might only get summers and winter break. Maybe the father will come up with a better solution.
2026-08-24 23:47:03
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Renee Q Mchugh :
never move for a man unless you love the idea of moving.
2026-08-24 16:39:58
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LuluHaze :
And the kids may have a strong feelings about moving/not moving that could impact your relationship with them.
2026-08-24 17:40:34
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Flower :
I love your suggestion about leaving the possibility open that HE can be the custodial parent. I bet that would scare him to death.
2026-08-25 01:29:48
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Elena ❤️🐾🐈 :
Has she considered taking trips just for herself, even if they are short ones? Travel to California or Hawaii 1-2 times/year and enjoy a week of beautiful coastlines with great weather. There is so much she can do to enrich her life, and the children’s as well, by getting out of the rut she’s in. She’ll meet a lot of people by doing so and might meet some that even live in Alaska. My impression is that she feels stuck (understandably so) and isn’t thinking of all the possibilities.
2026-08-24 17:36:46
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Sara Gene Rhodes :
I can already tell you, a judge isn’t going to let you move the kids out of state. Best bet is trying to work something out with dad.
2026-08-24 15:30:12
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Lanina575 :
Good advice! That’s a tough one.
2026-08-24 13:53:56
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jess :
don't talk to a judge or atty...jus leave...with kids....
2026-08-24 15:59:06
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hi :
First thing that came to mind was perhaps an arrangement where you would have the children 6 months out of the year, living in the lower states, and their dad would raise them the other six, preferably during the nicest months in Alaska.
2026-08-24 23:17:14
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Simone Nikole199 :
I like your new hair!
2026-08-25 04:44:48
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Tanya | Love Lawyer 🇨🇦 🇦🇺 :
She can just move herself and let the kids stay with their father. He can figure it out and she can have more time on holidays.
2026-08-24 22:56:11
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