Natalia ✨ :
you need patience more than anything. Everything takes longer than you think, and you’re constantly waitingfor your period, appointments, bloodwork, retrieval, fertilization, blast results, genetic testing, then the transfer. And nobody really prepares you for the numbers. You can start with a great number of follicles or eggs and then watch it go down at every stage: eggs retrieved, mature eggs, fertilized eggs, blasts, genetically normal embryos. That part is crazy because every little update feels huge.
I’d also tell someone not to compare their numbers too much. You can have amazing AMH, respond really well, do everything right, and IVF is still unpredictable. At the end of the day, you don’t need 20 embryos you need the one that becomes your baby.
And definitely: don’t plan your entire life around the original IVF timeline because something will probably get delayed😂 IVF is basically 20% medicine and 80% waiting for somebody to call you with a number
2026-08-24 17:48:59