@sleepygoddess414: Bill Compton may be the voice of reason we all need! #caregiver #alzheimer #dementia #memorycare #elderly

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binnneyy
binnneyy🇨🇦 :
One can hope that Stephen sees this series and helps you out.
2026-08-25 13:54:54
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jillbrackenbigelo
Jilly bean :
have bill deliver flowers to her new home if she moves in!
2026-08-24 21:36:16
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bardiekat
Katharine :
Genius. I used to tell the aide’s that would shower my grandma, that if she refused, tell her they’ll be “fired” if she doesn’t take a shower. She loved rescuing them from their mean boss 😂
2026-08-25 00:05:46
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piasaysrelax
PiaSaysRelax :
When my grandmother developed dementia, she eventually ended up in a nursing home where she got increasingly more combative with all of the staff, there cursing and yelling and fighting them. Eventually, she had to go to the hospital to have all of her psychiatric medication‘s taken off and for them to figure out what to give her. But what they found when she went to the hospital was that she wasn’t combative or aggressive there at all. Turns out all of the people in the local nursing home were the children and grandchildren of people she knew, and we think it was very difficult for her to have them caring for her because she was the one who was supposed to care for all those others. When she got discharged, she went to a nursing home two towns away, and they didn’t have any problems with her. That is to say having your children tell you what to do can be very humbling and difficult… Sometimes strangers are better.
2026-08-25 00:54:33
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mandymacesullivan
MMS :
I feel for you. My MIL had Huntington’s Disease which is like having Parkinson’s, Alzheimer’s and ALS all at once. She was physically and emotionally abusive and just not safe at home. Even with repeated police calls, Adult Protective Services, and 3 community restraining orders, we could not get her declared incapacitated nor did we want guardianship. We were advised to remove ourselves completely from her life to let her reach rock bottom. Eventually, we took her to the ER to “prove” to use she was well. While there, an ER doctor saw all of our evidence and sent her to a bigger city hospital. We refused to come and get her. Therefore, the county in which she resided had to take over as her guardian and poof - she was declared incapacitated. She was then placed in a lovely facility for HD. It’s an awful system.
2026-08-24 21:19:25
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mirrored_eyes
Nici :
Make sure he mentions his “affliction” and how she should be grateful to have such loving children
2026-08-25 14:16:41
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rinnyyy110011
Rinnysgems :
I’m pregnant with my first child right now, a daughter, and I dream of a cool, fun, innovative daughter like you. Truly she’s so lucky to have you.
2026-08-25 00:39:56
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sk8ing2
Boobitch :
I have faith in Bill
2026-08-24 22:21:15
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karenpeterson673
karenpeterson673 :
Devilishly clever.
2026-08-24 18:50:17
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maverickandbella
MaverickandBella :
So you can bring the application to her, discuss it in detail and fill it out. Stress it’s not imminent, you just need to have a place reserved ‘in case’. Get her to sign it. This may take a while. Then just move her when she agrees. When she balks at that, show her the application—mama, you signed it. She’ll recognize her hand writing. This is all legal. And you can do this while ‘Bill’ discusses it.
2026-08-24 23:55:02
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notyinzmom
CrankyMamaBear :
I love that you have found a way to make a connection with your mother in such a non-conventional way to help both of you through a really difficult time. 💜 You have a PHD in Creative Medicine!
2026-08-25 00:39:59
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love_all_equal
Love_All_Equal :
Yes this is a fantastic idea and if it's (presumably) her idea... I didn't have to go that far with my mom but once she saw the actual place and knew she'd have people waiting on her hand and foot, it was a done deal.
2026-08-24 18:02:58
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rayvnn_
Debruh :
I feel like the real Bill would totally do this. lol Take a few minutes out of his night to call a lady and help out before going off and doing vampiry things.
2026-08-25 12:21:27
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christineeubanks121224
Christine Eubanks :
Your approach is MINT! Keep a journal and write a book
2026-08-24 22:17:31
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waywardadult
WaywardAdult :
You could offer Bill Compton friendship line to other dementia parents.
2026-09-17 11:22:04
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blueydgrli
SandraDee 🤗 :
Can you do an ai video of bill showing her a slideshow of the new hotel?
2026-08-24 21:17:01
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mutewolf_
Elizabeth :
this is so lovely and wonderful of you to do. does your mom talk to you about bill?
2026-08-24 18:14:22
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the_mrs.davis
Tamera :
My grandma has dementia and I’m definitely running this one up the flag pole to my mom and aunt. Loving someone with dementia requires creativity 💙
2026-08-25 18:40:04
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jesseburnettkenny
Jesse K 🧡🧡🧡 :
My grandma forgot she disliked her daughter in law, my mother because of her Alzheimer’s. So my mom became her “Bill”.
2026-08-25 04:12:17
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valaamaris
ValaAmaris :
Ohhh yes. She deserves to be pampered at this stage in her life.
2026-08-24 19:40:25
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user13092130022036
meowzers :
I had to get guardianship of my dad. The cost was taken from his accounts. It was about $4000 and it took about 4 weeks. I don’t recommend it though, there’s so much work involved
2026-08-24 21:05:14
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thebaroness415
TheBaroness415 :
The universe has sent you to me! I take care of my elderly aunt who does not have a spouse or any kids. I also have to find creative ways to convince her to do things like go to the doctor. This is gold! I will be following for the updates!
2026-08-25 00:54:53
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baileystilksen
Bailey Stilksen :
bill needs to tell her about all the positives
2026-08-24 23:59:51
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moesker3
Life barely above water :
I think this is genius
2026-08-24 21:32:39
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amyricker542
amy :
"Madam, I am just worried about you in that big ole house by herself! you deserve the best care there is! And when your all moved in you don't need to worry for nothing. we can do everything for you! wouldn't that be lovely?"
2026-08-25 20:41:46
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