@1araquinn: still not as bad as when a guy followed me down into the subway while screaming because i didn’t thank him for his “compliment” lmfao

Emma W :

Why can’t they just leave us alone

rosie.v.posie :

what’s their actual goal 😭 none of us would be mad if they gave a genuine compliment but it’s not so literally who is this for 💀

eldee666 :

It’s why I always wear baggy clothes. I know we shouldn’t modify what we do for men but I also don’t want to be bothered :/

ree$e :

mortifying. the reason me and i’m sure many others don’t leave the house alone as much as we used to. so sorry this happened my dear :(

rachimas :

Moral of the story; Men ruin everything ✍️

Mae :

My partner got spit on my a man yesterday in NYC while walking the dog. Just walking the dog.

🇵🇸 Esperanza Diabolica 🇵🇸 :

we have to start screaming at them STOP IT STOP IT STOP IT. Or something. this abuse is not going to stop unless we fight back somehow

Kait :

That was the worst part of living in NY for me, so much worse than rats or trash or whatever - feeling constantly sexually surveilled

Divisti :

Manhattan1scosm1c :

the one time I decided not to wear a bra an old man just starts harassing me 😭 and then proceeded to get mad that I declined to go out to dinner with him 😑

Ashley King Designs :

I've heard dating men in NYC is a nightmare 💔

Mika Turbo :

thats so gross 😩 im sorry dude

y0shi3ggsalad :

"It was a nice attempt" at the end made me so sad ❤️‍🩹🥺

Willow Douglas :

Yesterday i was in an elevator with a guy and he said i smell good and asked if i had a bf and i said yes and he said 'he's lucky' and finally i got to my floor but it was so creepy who says a stranger smells good i wasn't wearing perfume... actually i was wearing men's old spice deodorant...

bellaeatsbugs :

Every time I visit a city it’s so jarring how brazen dudes are

& I mean it. 🍓 :

Happens in Michigan too 😭 I live in a cute little town where I walk everywhere and I can’t go outside Without receiving an unwanted comment. What’s crazy is, unlike you, I’m 45 & unremarkable

amberlynnbarbie :

It should be legal to smack them in the face. Lets bring back public shaming a bit

Kismet moth :

I grew up there. Leaving was the best thing I’ve ever done.

Aves :

you just exist and that's too much for them to fucking handle apparently???

Hannah :

Ahh yes the duality of being out and about in NYC. Happens to me twice a week too 😅

TêaNuray :

hard to talk without teeth 🤷

karly :

How often we cross streets to avoid walking past a man. It’s sad we have to think like that.

lavender.kaes :

my wife and I were waiting for our train at penn and a man came over trying to hit on us—we ignored him so he spat in our faces 🙃