Unpopular opinion: toxic masculinity’s biggest ally is religion.
2026-08-25 14:44:59
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Fionn Bowd :
Hear me out - urinals are a humiliation ritual also
2026-08-26 11:09:11
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Ellemaddo :
All I know is, women don’t sit around and talk about which man is masculine but we do sit around and talk about men who are toxic.
2026-08-25 13:43:06
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Barb🇨🇦 :
Its important for men to understand that they are also victims of the patriarchy. Thanks for your message.
2026-08-24 20:49:25
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Chantelia_Strange :
there's a certain degree of women who act kinda like 'flying monkeys' (people who act on behalf of a narcissist or abuser to spread gossip, gather information, or manipulate a target) in the toxic masc game too and I think that really throws men off even more cuz then the attacks are coming from what feels like all sides, especially if its a mother figure.
2026-09-07 10:56:17
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BreLetHerselfGo :
Men have been tricked into blaming women and feminism for all the things that patriarchy and capitalism is doing to them
2026-08-25 13:20:41
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Laird 🇨🇦 :
You're right. I agree. My masculinity cannot be under attack because my masculinity is not defined by, or dependent on the approval of other people.
2026-08-24 21:11:19
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OneofUsCannotBeWrong 🇨🇦 :
I recently realized that the only opinions that men care about are that of other men, and this knowledge has changed my world.
2026-08-25 06:02:56
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Sass, Actually :
Have you ever noticed that women don’t refuse men who are emotionally stable and treat women like gold? Men are conditioned as boys that “soft” behavior won’t get them women. THEY ARE WRONG.
2026-08-26 10:45:00
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Cwningen Drychinebus :
All that "real man" stuff is exhausting. So many rules, rules always changing. Its a hard no from me.
2026-09-06 12:04:32
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erinerinjoyjoy :
Hunting is murdering a whole ass animal to take a picture to show off to other men and then scrolling on social media and forgetting that animal in a sec after the photo is taken when that animal had a whole family and life - life lost for nothing.
2026-08-27 21:48:50
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kellypupuketaylor🇳🇿 :
Toxic masculinity isn’t saying masculinity itself is toxic. It’s about the harmful expectations placed on men about how they’re “supposed” to behave..suppress emotion, never show vulnerability, always be dominant, aggressive, sexually successful, financially powerful and constantly prove their worth. And a lot of that policing comes from other men. Women generally aren’t demanding that men never cry, never ask for help, dominate every room or constantly prove how tough they are. Men often enforce those standards on each other, then assume women must want the performance. That’s the point: toxic masculinity can harm men too.
2026-08-25 03:18:26
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Allie🌻🌟JustOutsideOfNormal :
Are most of your followers women? I can’t imagine men actually paying attention to this message even though it’s super important.
2026-08-26 19:42:06
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nervacular :
the patriarchy hurts everyone!
2026-08-24 21:58:40
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Amber Johnson :
its way more masculine to be against the grain and be kind and soft.
2026-08-24 20:43:15
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Taylor Carr 🐚🍸 :
Well said
2026-09-07 22:32:26
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k8🖤👑🍭✨🔮🇨🇦🇵🇸🇸🇩🇦🇫 :
It’s okay to cry 🫶🏻
2026-09-06 18:24:24
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kirbythaproffitt :
That part 👆🏼👆🏼
2026-09-07 07:45:47
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micah_james :
I have tattoos on the top of each of my knees that read “stay soft” because as a trans man, I’ve learned that is SO MUCH harder than becoming the monster they want me to be.
2026-08-26 21:08:46
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Matte237🇨🇦🇨🇦 :
“A rejection of toxicity, is not a rejection of masculinity” Bars. 🔥🔥🔥
2026-08-25 04:47:27
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RideshareShaman :
I was just thinking earlier today how the whole business model of the manosphere is to keep those men angry and alone
2026-08-25 23:53:12
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Christina Price :
True masculinity is knowing your identity as a man isn't in jeopardy if you show kindness and empathy.
2026-08-28 17:42:17
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Mosshead :
it’s been my experience that if masculinity is brought up, it’s usually to trick me into doing something stupid or something I wouldn’t do otherwise
2026-08-24 23:36:32
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Miss Hannah 💖 :
I’ve never once been around a man and thought “wow, he’s not masculine enough.”
2026-08-26 21:25:20
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Joel Burdine :
I think it's a very freeing moment when you realize all you need to do to escape it is to stop caring what other guys think. I don't think I would have enjoyed life as much as I have so far if I were worried about how other dudes were perceiving me.
2026-09-06 07:07:23
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