@loudly.leo: Replying to @Fart this is SUCH an important topic to discuss when it comes to conversations around abuse! Thank you! #relationships #abuse #survivor #trauma #healing
they never did it to me argument irritates the Heck out of me.
2026-08-24 23:20:50
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cassielynntoks 🍁🍓 :
Spot on. My mom is the fakest of the fake. She is so obsessed with how people see her, that she will make big moments about herself when she should be thinking of someone else.
2026-08-24 22:03:12
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Lord Froyoneous :
He would say awful things to me in public while laughing and saying "it's a joke". Only one person called him out in 13 years. His friends even looked at me with sadness but would never call him out. "He's just a jokester. He has a dark sense of humor" Those "jokes" were horrific attacks that went on for hours at home to keep me awake for days on end.
2026-08-25 02:12:27
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ADHDAussieMomma :
This is HOW you know it IS abuse. Because as someone who has been in this situation, understanding their condition got me TRAPPED by guilt. I sold myself the story that they did not know better. When they did.
2026-08-26 10:50:47
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chelsea :( :
100% hence why the wait till you got home remarks, they knew what they were doing it was to protect themselves.
2026-08-25 16:24:05
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stvvb333 :
Honestly the worst knowing everyone loves someone who abused you. And that everyone they know is going to think you’re the crazy one
2026-08-25 18:43:29
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Alex :
This means they KNOW. Exactly
2026-08-24 23:53:23
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Bee 🐝 :
Spot on. He would wallpaper neighbours walls for free, he would go to the shops for anyone who asked, run any errand ever asked from someone outside the flat. But me asking him to not be nasty to me? Oh all of sudden it’s too much and I’m selfish for asking 😂
2026-08-25 11:31:35
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Summer Joy :
One of the most disorienting thing looking back on now that I’m an adult, is that my father was a therapist. When I was studying for my own psychology degree it really hit me how much my father DID have the access to knowing it was wrong.
2026-08-25 17:34:34
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Valee Vande 🧿🆘🧿 :
Oh, my mom always pulled the, "poor me, my child is so horrible." I must lock her away. I must take her children.
2026-08-26 15:47:40
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Nevaeh Jett :
Both of my parents were like this. My father was the friendliest family man out in public but a selfish narcissist at home. My mother was an “organised neat freak protective mumma bear” in public, but a lazy erratic short tempered psycho at home.
2026-08-24 22:37:54
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A Lynn 💚🇦🇺 :
This. But I knew from one look what would happen when we got home.
2026-08-25 11:42:06
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Holly_Honestly🧿 :
my mom.
2026-08-24 22:06:32
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marion :
Thank u for saying this I need this to be so much more known :(
2026-08-25 06:16:42
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Nekki :
Everyone thought my stalker was the best spouse ever publicly. Nobody believed how bad he was until I showed one person a videotape of his behavior and I was helped immediately. I normalized the situation when it was sad 😔 and abusive
2026-08-25 15:43:48
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Donnielle Mondello :
Yes! Their mask in public is part of the abuse.
2026-08-27 04:19:49
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nakedhippie13 :
They know what they are doing and hide it- it’s a choice- otherwise they’d abuse you everywhere
2026-08-25 12:43:04
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Sara Gordon :
My cousin
2026-08-26 15:56:15
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𝓜𝓸𝓻𝓰𝓪𝓷🧷 :
😁😁😁
2026-08-25 02:24:01
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DJSunflowerGirl :
💜💜💜
2026-08-24 22:12:49
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