Yeah….. this is a bad take lmao. I have so many gorgeous smart amazing friends who got married off dating apps. The reality is a lot of amazing people just don’t have time to be outside meeting people all the time.
2026-08-25 22:36:01
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Natalia :
So tired of this take. When will we stop shaming people for trying to find love 😭
2026-08-26 10:45:46
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Iza Mazur :
Some of us have no choice. It doesn’t mean I’m desperate lol. I work from home and I don’t go out to drink or to bars or very social places. Where the hell am I going to meet someone organically?? Be fr
2026-08-26 00:06:33
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wastingmytimehere :
This is SUCH a weird take. No babe. I’m booked and busy with responsibilities. I do not want to date the men I run into while doing my day to day responsibilities or men I work with. I want to date a man far removed from that so I can shake things up and have fun in my romance. It’s ok to meet people off the beaten path. IMO it’s healthier.
2026-08-26 12:35:29
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alleirbag82 :
Dating apps are literally just another way to meet people. Being on one doesn’t automatically make someone desperate or any less magnetic. That has way more to do with you and the energy you give off
2026-08-24 23:01:00
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ale 🩷 :
Women who are genuinely pouring into themselves like you mentioned, don't spend their energy criticizing others. If you focused more on your own growth, you wouldn't have the mental space to judge people :)
2026-08-26 19:32:54
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clarissashavonne :
I’ve had men ask me why I’m on there 😭
2026-08-26 05:12:30
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234Sd :
Not everything you think is true. Some of us pour into ourselves for years but I work in a all female space, my friends are coupled up, when I go to places alone like the park, beach, coffee shop, I don’t like the men that come up to me. Being on an app does take work. I’m not desperate I’m happy with my life but I realized I need to meet with people I wouldn’t normally meet. Yes I am very busy and so are the men I meet up with because they’re professionals, not a 20 some year old that is barely starting. So again not everything you think is true
2026-08-25 19:24:19
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bossybritttt :
Babe, please..
2026-08-25 23:50:06
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matjoyxoxo :
This is a dumb take
2026-08-26 00:12:31
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patron margarita 🍸 :
The woman claiming they’re on dating apps because they don’t leave the house are in for a rude awakening. One of the worse things you can do is get into a relationship when you don’t have any friends or hobbies.
2026-08-26 20:22:25
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Shannon :
Agree. The comments pretty much prove the point lol.
2026-08-26 12:10:28
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haltandcatch :
I feel gross on it. I only ever last a week and then delete it.
2026-08-26 00:11:29
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Alejandra :
Nah, I just like to pick and choose who I want to meet. I don’t just let anyone approach me on the street. I have standards. So I chose who I wanted to give my attention to and for how long.
2026-08-25 21:17:38
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omsaj :
Yeah this is a bad take 😂
2026-08-25 19:31:26
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T G :
Umm I don’t know how old you are, but once you’re out of college, going to the same job every day. Seeing the same people every day. Don’t go out drinking every night. There aren’t many opportunities to be magnetic and meet people organically
2026-08-26 00:50:03
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Val :
You’re so correct 👍. I feel depleted from dating apps and always delete. It’s just so low value
2026-08-26 04:15:23
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♡𝒮ℴ𝓊𝓁 ♡︎ :
I agree, i also feel like you cross paths with ppl who you were never meant to meet
2026-08-26 18:16:30
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JMJ :
I have also thought they were cringe and hence, haven’t been on them in 10 years lol.
2026-08-25 19:54:40
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M :
Tell me you’ve never lived in a town with 500 people. Sometimes it’s the only way 🥰 how I met my husband when I was building a business and he was in ortho surgery residency. Not always girly
2026-08-25 19:18:34
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🤎Vee🤎 :
I gave myself the ick. I was there 3 weeks. Never again. Hail Mary full of grace, god forgive me. I’m not that lame. 😩😩
2026-08-26 07:19:34
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nevin on earth 🧚♂️🛸 :
Completely agree I made a post on this too and men got angryyyy
2026-08-26 02:34:46
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kweenofthieves :
Yes!!! I deleted the apps 5 years ago and genuinely never pulled better men than I have in the wild
2026-08-24 23:02:28
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used_hername :
Not if you’re a homebody & never go out 💁🏻♀️😆
2026-08-25 20:58:05
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Latinamami222 🇲🇽 :
I have Tinder, I’m not desperate. I use it to network. I met a millionaire like two weeks ago when I was in Florida now we’re talking about doing business together.
2026-08-31 09:00:38
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