Monica Umunna
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Chad :
Always on my fyp……. 😂😂😂
2026-09-29 16:22:00
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Nahla 🐝 نهلة :
Aka controlling others through feelings
2026-08-25 08:52:10
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shalomshalom271915 :
Why does this always show up on my fyp instead of hers
2026-08-27 13:43:29
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John Merrick :
thank you. i can't get my girl to understand this
2026-08-25 01:04:40
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Kaiser_Horus :
she viewed the harmony of agreement as a signal that our relationship was good. so when I deigned to express an opinion that was different from hers then it meant that our relationship was bad.
2026-08-26 19:23:29
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foreverloves93 :
this sounds like it was written by ai bc theres such low nuance. acknowledging your feelings and taking them into consideration would very likely require SOME kind of change/compromise to a plan. that's not full agreement. but it demonstrates compassion among other things. on both sides btw.
2026-09-19 13:38:12
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Joseph Romero :
yes my wife early in my marriage my wife wanted me to agree with her feelings
2026-08-26 02:40:15
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The Print Plug-Designs&Prints :
even tho I know for sure that he's wrong i just still say ok babe i understand because the trauma that was before me is not for me to handle. i just answer him respectfully and stay quiet and keep it moving.
2026-08-25 05:26:00
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zintradi :
Feelings can be a good servant but make a horrible master
2026-09-16 02:46:34
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Chris :
Finally understood this and got out. Much happier these days
2026-09-24 14:01:14
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Yorichii Tsugikuni :
What you just explained is the action of guilt tripping
2026-08-27 13:48:55
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dvega01 :
Took multiple couples therapy sessions for us to realize this one little point
2026-09-19 21:06:20
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Retired-N-Hiking 🆘 🇺🇸 :
That last line “are you just demanding to be obeyed” says it all. Thats the goal of hurt feelings. And by the way, I don’t believe person A can hurt person B’s feelings. Person B is hurt because of their expectations not being met
2026-08-26 21:27:41
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djeifbeorcydi :
Dear god scream it louder. All of that. Validation and acknowledgment have NOTHING to do with agreement, acquiescence, or apology.
2026-09-21 15:59:10
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Liberty Forge :
That’s exactly what my ex wife did
2026-09-10 10:50:12
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NCDude1983 :
still don't know what "validate my feelings" looks like.
2026-09-11 23:23:08
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weberbenzwerks :
acknowledge all those nuts that feel Lindsey Clancy isnt responsible
2026-08-25 15:44:20
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MackUhRoni :
10000x yes. Ppl don’t understand what validation actually is. I myself didn’t understand for a long time. Acknowledgement and agreement are totally separate entities. “I hear you”, “I know this is important to you”, “I can see that you’re upset about this” is acknowledgement. BUT IT IS NOT AGREEMENT.
2026-08-25 16:54:34
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Alejandro Castillo :
I was told once.."if you dont agree with me then I dont know why we are together...."
2026-08-25 19:42:58
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Joel Shinness :
I occasionally say, "your feelings are always valid. how you got there is sometimes horsehair."
2026-09-14 17:56:36
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Uncle Ronnie :
Feelings are always real, but they're not always right. Sometimes a person's feelings are not rooted in anything but their own insecurities and their projected interpretation of events.
2026-09-15 19:18:53
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Rollie :
Thank You. Men shouldn’t have to change the way that they feel about a situation to make you happy… or not get punished for having a difference of opinion of what the facts actually are, a different life experience, or understanding of the situational appropriate action to take- it’s manipulation
2026-08-28 20:55:43
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Biz.R :
👏👏👏 Exactly.
2026-08-25 14:48:45
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Waz :
The last comment “obeyed” is so accurate.
2026-08-27 13:14:45
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jimmiejames2023 :
damn I hate that F word
2026-09-14 21:47:49
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