look i learned from my man, i don’t get random flowers , but he’s always down to get me snacks and watch movies with me. don’t get surprise dates but i do get taken to his pizza place and his restaurant. i don’t get cute love letters but he works 3rd shift and always sends me the sunrise and paragraphs while im asleep. stop worrying about what he isn’t doing for you and focus on what he DOES do for you. this is why so many relationships end bc you guys hold the man up to so many standards and compare him to other men/other relationships you see online. focus on what ur doing in that relationship and it will go smoothly. stop comparing. love is NOT a “who gets what” competition. it is love and it is all different than others.
2026-08-25 18:59:46
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Lethabo.🌸 :
can’t repost , but just know i was here.
2026-08-25 08:13:14
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𝔸𝕕𝕖𝕝𝕒𝕚𝕕𝕖 :
Accept that people’s definition of you is based on their own perception. You could have been the best girl for him from your POV but that’s not what he saw. No one else is having your experience but you.
2026-08-27 21:53:11
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miguel :
What did you do for him though?
2026-08-25 14:25:29
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Brie :
Can't repost? Y'all I sent it directly to him
2026-08-25 14:21:18
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MamaKelly :
no flowers, letters, 8 years and not even a promise ring, Was there for all his highs and lows he still cheated!
2026-08-25 08:44:29
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DrownDownTheRabbitHole :
they want us to give them everything they want and let them do what ever but can't even listen or give us BARE FKING MINIMUM!!!!!!
2026-08-25 16:24:25
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sam :
“His strange way of loving” is my new go to thank u
2026-08-25 13:58:23
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Nyls :
They take your spark away and then complain of what's left. Don't settle.
2026-08-26 03:51:28
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Zee💯💯 :
When did you do any of that for him?
2026-08-27 23:00:44
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lunita13x :
I wanted romance, to be appreciated
2026-08-25 07:03:10
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laryssaros.a :
“You never wanted to work for this relationship”. Said him which clearly put everyone else as priority. Where was this love? I don’t see it. I don’t feel it.
2026-08-27 17:06:03
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Ana89❤️ :
Guys get comfortable once they know they have us in the bag and got what they wanted. That’s why I’m staying single less stress 😉
2026-08-27 08:59:55
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iamcutee21 :
Is there really a man exist that doesnt plan dates, doesn't give flowers.?
2026-08-26 01:14:33
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Ms.Vee 🌼 :
This is my exact situation
2026-08-27 08:13:37
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skai_gemini :
…. and yet it was never enough for him.
2026-08-27 22:18:58
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sinom520 :
Save button?😭
2026-08-27 17:28:39
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gabs🌀 :
I’m actually to drunk for this
2026-08-25 05:56:11
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ayozaddyyyyy :
But can buy cigarettes & energy drinks.
2026-08-26 01:33:33
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Irais Martinez :
“I just settled for his strange way of loving” 💯 🔥
2026-08-27 05:42:31
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Wasp𖢥Whisperer :
we dated for nearly 3 years and i’ve still never been taken on a date that i didnt suggest or plan
2026-08-25 14:02:22
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Lexexclusives :
When he questions my loyalty to him, and if I love him, but I literally went without basic necessities
2026-08-25 11:19:24
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Brittney Erickson :
My bf of seven years does nothing for me. Just makes me cry
2026-08-26 03:45:53
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Diana Cruz :
But he pays for everything tho 🥺 lmao
2026-08-25 17:33:02
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