Nikki Haley :
I contracted herpes after being intimate with my new boyfriend for the first time,before we had sex,he never mentioned that he was living with the virus,so I had no idea I was at risk.A few days later,i became extremely sick and experienced painful symptoms that lasted for about two weeks,It was one of the most difficult experiences I’ve ever gone through,after i confronted him,he admitted that he had known about his herpes diagnosis for years but chose not to tell me before now,felt completely betrayed because i believe i deserved the opportunity to make an informed decision about my own health,If he had been honest with me from the beginning,i could have asked questions,taken precautions or decided whether I was comfortable with the risk.Instead, that choice was taken away from me.I decided to end the relationship because trust is very important to me.However,he keeps telling me that I’m overreacting and that herpes is common,so it shouldn’t be a big deal,i understand that many people live normal lives with herpes,but i still feel that honesty and informed consent are essential in any relationship,am i wrong for feeling this way or was i justified in expecting him to be truthful before we became intimate?Am cured now by @Herbalist Ikedi
2026-08-26 14:05:24