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pauls :
Feminism.
2026-09-10 00:23:13
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Big poppa :
Not our job anymore
2026-09-10 11:41:54
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uncle kenny :
when men learned, it has stopped being a 50/50 relationship, in fact it should have never been a 50/50 situation,,, in fact, if both partners aren't giving 100% its a failed partnership
2026-09-10 16:13:17
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yaritesure :
because we give what we get
2026-09-09 14:39:37
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robertoso241 :
Sick of taking care of someone that doesn’t appreciate it.
2026-08-26 15:21:51
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Erwin Orlando68 :
The problem isn't necessarily the desire for a man who protects and provides. The problem is treating that as a universal "job" that every man is obligated to perform simply because he's a man. A healthier way to look at it is, in a traditional relationship, a man may willingly take the role of primary provider and protector. But relationships are partnerships, and couples can decide together how responsibilities are divided. "Protect and provide" can mean more than money, emotional support, physical safety, reliability, parenting, and being there when things get difficult. Saying men who don't fulfill her definition of providing are "not doing their job" assumes that every man has accepted the same relationship contract. And if we're going to talk about gendered responsibilities, it's reasonable to ask what responsibilities the woman believes she has agreed to fulfill in return. What is her job?
2026-09-08 05:41:45
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USA :
It’s just not worth the effort
2026-08-26 22:53:22
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jokernzbg8e :
Because everything we are expected to do is considered our job or duty, but anything that should be expected of the woman is considered her choice or a privilege. It’s not worth the hassle anymore
2026-09-08 19:07:05
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Red Hood :
Who said they don't want to?
2026-09-08 09:31:57
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Buddy D :
Unfortunately, the world has changed since I was younger as far as values what people hold as sacred or important. I'm admittedly a Gen X guy so I still hold doors, pull out chairs, walk on the inside when we're going down a sidewalk, I pay for dinner, I pay for drinks, I take out the garbage, I mow the grass, I'm a protector of any woman in my life when it's needed. I attempt to balance that with being respectful that some women have done things themselves for so long that you can't just barge in and take over in any aspect. Somewhere in this day and age of social media people traded friends for followers , they value comments from strangers over conversations and prioritize content above real life experienced. This virtual world constantly misrepresents what real life is through videos and content and it is and has been a deteriorating factor in face to face interaction and respect. From my perspective, the value of life has dropped and people are more concerned with being versus doing right. In the past this was something that fell heavily on the men who were raised to respect, protect, support and provide the women in their lives with whatever they needed. There's a gray area that lies within what I just stated that allows for any woman to do those things for herself but as men we should still offer. Eventually, men stopped offering which meant the younger males looking up to those men for the example of how to act and respond saw bad examples and it continued to deteriorate to where we are today. I recently saw a statistic that was representing unemployment in various groups and scenarios, and there's actually a scenario of males who have college degrees who do not have jobs and are not looking for jobs. I can't remember all the math but the number was very surprising
2026-09-01 23:40:58
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user1267194787320 :
they do but just not with the woman they meet. we can procreate all day long
2026-09-02 07:24:05
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Tim Heller :
we cannot compete with the bear. 🤣
2026-08-29 04:53:44
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urial915 :
too risky and the rewards for doing "our job" is not worth it.. in other words the risk vs reward is completely lopsided to risk.
2026-09-02 09:23:16
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Gregory Suarez :
They do ...for the women who are worth it
2026-08-27 19:43:31
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Scott :
why is it our "JOB"
2026-09-08 22:52:58
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BoomBoomBoomer :
Here we go again. Read the previous 1,000 posts about this exact thing.
2026-09-09 01:17:09
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will g :
The labor is not worth the reward. The risks are too high for the reward. It's just not worth it anymore. Why would I wanna procreate with someone that doesn't appreciate me or even take care of me or love me or\n Do their job so you can get your job. This whole thing is just one big job.\n You don't want to get your job. So why would I wanna do a job that doesn't wanna work with me?
2026-08-29 01:45:10
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big dog :
it's not our job anymore
2026-08-29 13:08:43
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Mako :
Another one
2026-08-29 05:55:06
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s :
what is the job? you.. please.😳
2026-08-30 00:30:42
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Kiezer Soza :
Your Attitude
2026-08-28 18:29:11
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sussio :
no just your man I protect my wife!!!
2026-08-28 16:12:59
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Jc :
Because men want thier peace!!! We tired of the disrespect, not being valued and not appreciated… rather come home to an empty house then walking on egg shells!!!
2026-08-28 01:07:00
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Booboo :
im doing it. not sure, maybe its something about you
2026-08-27 23:08:21
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Unterbrink :
Never get married again
2026-08-26 23:02:56
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