@toniashealingjourney: Some of us spent years trying to become easier to love. Quieter. Smaller. Less emotional. Less opinionated. Less us. But maybe you were never “too much.” Maybe you were just surrounded by people who were more comfortable when you were less. Take up the damn space. ❤️ #MyMotherNeverTaughtMe #WomenSupportingWomen #SelfWorth #HealingJourney

Linda Izzo75 :

Amen. Generational when you look back as you get older🙏 break the pattern

Lemmydream🌸🇲🇦 :

Oeffff thank youuuu!!! Exactly going through this awareness and awakening about this part!

Cher :

My mom hated us too. Her mom was nit a good mom, either.

Nature girl :

True that

Jamie :

😭 I miss my momma. and it can!! we got this ladies🫶

Teresa Tucker West :

I feel this through to the depths of my soul.

Sheila :

me too

Jen :

Always was told putting myself first made me selfish.. So I still don’t

LadyBossLisa ❤️😘😎🥳 :

my mother taught me how to hate myself

Tonyalynnart :

I felt this to my core and I broke the cycle with my children they are 19&23. I also just found out my mom has dementia

Alpha_Female 🪬🧿♊ :

this is why I try to forgive her. I was told stories about her upbringing too.

Hill :

cycle breaker here 🙌

Puddingpanda_bitchcakes :

My Narc mother taught me how to hate myself. I’m almost 44 and I still do. I’m still angry and I chose to NEVER forgive her

Lauren Opatz :

“You sure wanna eat that?” “Lauren you’re getting a little tubby in your stomach” “Lauren would you just go away I don’t want to hear it” “well if you hadn’t worn what you wore those boys wouldn’t have touched you”. Yep been there and I refuse to treat my daughter as mine treated me.

jesse carbone :

thank you !!

deneeknight800 :

EXACTLY RIGHT

Yohanna Encarnacion :

Yes! 🫶

michellemcmillia35 :

We got this 💪❤️

sheiladodgen :

amen

Connie Redden :

🥰

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Carla :

But if I chose better, and I chose to become a better mother, why couldn’t she did it if the same was handed to me

Bevo :

Same here

Nina ♋︎ ♡ :

Same ❤️‍🩹