@ma.cristina91: Stop telling widows “this is my worst fear/nightmare” #griefjourney #widow #22aday #nightmare

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jayyy_mischief
Jayyy C :
I feel like when you haven’t gone through something as traumatic, it’s best to just send your condolences & literally not say anything else. I know some people don’t try to come off rude but, it’s always going to come off insensitive. “I couldn’t imagine” like does that not sound shitty? Do people not re read before they post?😕😕😕.
2026-09-14 20:40:48
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julie_202001
Ju19 :
When my dad died, people would say to me « Oh my God, I couldn't live without my father—it's impossible." Okay? As if I had a choice.
2026-08-25 20:25:53
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confessionsfromablonde
Emily :
Omg so many people have said to me “this is my biggest fear” and I’m here like BOO! 👻 I’m so strong and God needed David and it’s all Gods plan anyway so I just march on living everyone else’s biggest fear all while they can’t imagine but they are praying for me! 😂it was a long run on sentence but did I miss anything?
2026-08-25 15:06:33
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debbie.smith6323
Debbie Smith :
I hear at least he lived a good life
2026-08-26 00:14:25
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cherdawn24
Cheryl :
people want to project their emotional baggage on others. They don't think how it's going effect someone else. Now days people just word vomit all over the Internet without thinking . I will say a thousand times I am sincerely sorry you're going through this. Don't let dumb people who say dumb shit bother you . You did everything you could for your loving husband. You can't fix someone else's brain . He loved you and the kids that was evident.
2026-08-25 14:13:31
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makeupwithrechelle
🌸RechelleandBlossom🌸 :
I think also, they believe no one can help
2026-08-25 16:54:47
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jamie.lee4974
jamie :
side note, i absolutely adore your accent.
2026-08-25 16:03:51
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clauudii._
Claudia Diaz :
just wanna say I love watching your videos, they bring me so much comfort. he wasn’t my husband, but I lost my partner of 4 years whom was also the father to my kids, to mental health as well Jun 14th. it’s literally worse than a nightmare. at least you get to wake up and realize that it didn’t really happen, as to where the fact that our partner are no longer here physically with us is literal fucking he’ll
2026-08-27 00:49:52
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mamax2822
Amanda Kail 😇 :
Super early it’s glitching love you 😘
2026-08-25 12:15:23
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januarybaby30
Januarybaby5 :
And mama, you are making it, you made it through. You’re still making it through. One day at a time, sweetie. I can’t imagine how hard this must be.
2026-08-25 15:16:58
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deirdrebullard1272
deirdrebullard1272 :
I have been a widow for 20 months now. When I tell people my story I get you are so strong cause I couldn’t handle going through that. What makes them think I am handling it cause it is a nightmare
2026-08-25 13:24:35
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stefani_midlife_healing
Stefani Moreno :
Please don’t let these ppl tear you down honey. You’re already down. They’re just trying to kick you while you’re down. Don’t let them you take your time. Grieve your husband. Don’t worry about what these people say. We got your back.
2026-08-25 15:07:14
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socksprobably
sammy :
ugh people are so unbelievably insensitive I don't know why they think their two cents of essentially "your situation is so horrible 😱😱 I would hate to have this happen! 😱😱" like duh? how is that helpful? and I'm so sorry for your loss and you absolutely did everything you could. well done. I'm really impressed with everything you did and I'm so sorry the system failed you both
2026-08-25 12:11:34
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stef32230
Stef.3223 :
People suck… for real!
2026-08-26 13:14:19
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bigcousinq
Quiana 💕 :
I personally think our paths are set, this thought has brought me comfort becoming a widow. It helps me to keep my anger down towards my husband 😔
2026-08-25 22:50:38
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jacibennett1967
jacibennett1967 ( Jackie) :
people need to say this to themselves and see how would they like hearing it. just don't
2026-08-25 15:56:21
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makeupwithrechelle
🌸RechelleandBlossom🌸 :
You know I was thinking of your family last night and how I have been told by professionals that when someone takes their life, they think that’s the best thing they can do for their family. Im so sorry for your family and you!!
2026-08-25 16:40:09
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stephiirenee84
StephiiRenee84 :
people dont really think before they speak or they really just dont give a fuck about anyone's feelings that deeply. hugs and prayers always. I couldn't imagine saying that to someone. youre not in jail. so you took it well. 🙏 thank you jesus
2026-08-25 12:30:28
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anonymous.vent3
Rin Rants 🩵 :
I wish ppl would realize saying shit like that is very DISRESPECTFUL
2026-09-12 11:22:32
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ghoulalabootique
Larrah {Ghou-Lala BOO-tique} :
What is wrong with people. Why would they say these kind of things?!
2026-08-26 13:27:17
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ktsv233
KTSV23 :
May I ask where he was deployed to? (you don’t have to answer that if you don’t want to ) How long was he gone for when he was deployed? Just curious. 💙
2026-08-25 12:39:39
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me.rcedess
Mercedes Alexis 🏳️‍🌈 :
People will never ever understand how this truly feels unless it happens to you.
2026-08-25 15:13:46
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whtchocolate45
whtchocolate45 :
What was he dealing with/going through? Was he on meds?
2026-08-26 02:36:53
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melodyereynolds
Melodye | Thyroid Health Coach :
It’s just not helpful! Common sense people.
2026-08-25 21:41:36
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