nadaperches
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nunezj559 :
I loved her so much ! But damn the confusion and the not being chosen while everyone else was turned me into someone I don’t like . So I know I ultimately had to go .
2026-10-17 01:44:20
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Amber :
This convo is coming & I dread it.
2026-09-18 19:11:48
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Elizabeth :
I have been in no contact for 10 wks and it’s been the hardest thing I have ever done.. no pleading no chasing or negotiating boundaries.. but I chose myself
2026-09-03 18:22:12
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Bella Guerriera :
im so relieved and happy now
2026-09-10 20:52:52
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Munty285 :
Stuck in this cycle
2026-10-12 00:23:19
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The Anxious Bell :
After, it made love and relationships feel like the first Christmas after you learn Santa Claus isn't real. You can still enjoy it, but all the magic is gone and while you are enjoying it, you miss the past at the same time.
2026-09-29 12:30:55
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🫧 :
This dynamic we share has been one if the hardest things I’ve had to deal with. I’ve been pulling back and matching energy. If they show up, great. If they don’t. It’s data. I can’t chase anymore, I refuse to be a placeholder. Love me for what I am and what I can give you, not what you need and only when you need it.
2026-09-13 19:02:57
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The Trollest of Trolls :
I know that had to be extremely difficult for you, but you make it sound so easy…. I’m in a loveless, empty, roommate marriage, but I can’t bring myself to leave after being together for 26 years
2026-09-12 06:10:27
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AndrewA :
Walking away was extremely painful. I had to save myself from this toxic dynamic. They are a DA and a covert narcissist.
2026-09-13 11:00:50
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user3771676748447 :
What about the ones that think they do everything and say they crave more affection/sex but completely lack awareness there’s no intimacy
2026-09-16 00:15:46
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Chelsea :
Did this and my husband chose himself and said I was right. So instead of working on changing it to keep our marriage and me, he decided to walk away from our 10yr marriage. Then he goes back and forth and says he wants to try and make it work but doesn’t step up to the plate. I’m exhausted and over this roller coaster
2026-10-01 14:25:22
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Cindy :
Its been 2 weeks and its still hard.
2026-09-13 04:38:14
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Nina80❌ :
Im scared that I'm at this point
2026-10-06 02:20:33
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mrcanuck99 :
I’m there right now. I started to lose myself and was going down a hidden dark path by myself. It was awful. I ended things last night and I can’t tell you great I feel today. I’m so much lighter.
2026-09-09 04:29:25
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Zaira :
Same here! it is not easy at all,but it is necessary. We all have to live with he consequences of our choices for good and for bad🤷♀️
2026-09-02 21:51:03
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user8328169834162 :
thank you so very much for these wise words
2026-09-29 07:15:00
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Solo Mom Thought :
What did him not choosing you look like for you? Were you in a committed relationship?
2026-09-03 19:12:11
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Sangmi Kim :
I really needed to here this!! Thank you 😊 🙏
2026-09-04 00:48:23
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Promurf :
Truth
2026-09-11 18:22:43
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As seen on.... :
did they same..by boo
2026-09-05 00:05:04
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frankieibanez5 :
I just did this. Ended it. Are you a coach?
2026-09-25 02:30:44
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jack :
but how dare the avoidant choose themselves right?!?
2026-10-12 22:46:05
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💖🏝️🦄 :
“…with one foot out the door”— AND another woman in the wings
2026-09-19 12:14:33
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Josh Huffman :
I resonate with this. I had a big part in my actions and decisions that drove her to this. What we never had was that responsible final talk where we got to hear each other out for closure. When I brought up do you think he might be a dismissive avoidant she made it seem like it was some outlandish thing she’s never heard of. That was the first sign that I knew with all of our ups and downs this is the final time
2026-09-16 02:56:19
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coach.jeff.faldalen :
I’m going through this right now. I moved from Ca to Ne to be with her and it has been so painful.
2026-09-15 02:27:28
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