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✨🍑 peachypeachybookclub 🍑✨ :
I was honestly pissed that my miscarriage wasted my time. (Also my drs were SO unhelpful but that’s another story)
2026-08-25 22:08:55
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Whereskate :
came here to check if I need to fist fight anyone who tries to say seEe iT hApPenS whEn yOu stOp tryYinG
2026-08-25 16:42:42
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brynn :
I like the lip stain
2026-08-25 15:36:31
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brookedant :
If you saw me accidentally post my 6 week sonogram on my story no you didn’t 😭 my heart dropped into my ass when I saw it lmao
2026-08-25 16:03:16
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Hannah :
You have the best attitude I wish I could be like you. It’s so unfair that we have to go through this but when I think that way I also tell myself “and life isn’t fair and life goes on”. It’s so incredibly hard.
2026-08-25 16:07:24
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Hannah Jane :
You have the absolute best mindset, but this IS unfair. No one deserves this. I’m so sorry. You have a whole community of people praying for your rainbow!!! 🌈🌈
2026-08-25 17:08:40
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brielikethecheeez :
As a licensed therapist your level of cognitive reframing needs to be studied you are seriously incredible
2026-08-26 20:35:19
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Ari :
Girl you are describing it perfectly - it’s always like “wtf”
2026-08-25 23:16:41
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emma__bae :
Im so sorry this happened to you, but you have me chills from how articulate you are about infertility, IVF, miscarriage and the mental recalibrating that it all takes. I’m 5 miscarriages deep in the last 18 months and one of the hardest life lessons I’ve learned - as you expressed - is that life doesn’t owe me anything. I think infertility and IVF is like a tunnel that is pitch black, and you have to keep feeling along the sides of the tunnel walls to go forward, you must bump into things or stumble over obstacles, but you have to keep going forward, even though you don’t know where and when the tunnel will end up. I really hope all of our tunnels get us to where our hearts desire to go. 💕
2026-08-25 22:13:58
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Brittany Kelly :
I also got pregnant on my IVF break and then had a miscarriage. Continued with IVF after and got our rainbow 🌈
2026-08-26 21:18:04
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Becca✨ :
“what the fuck a little bit” is the perfect way to describe a miscarriage and fertility journey actually lol
2026-08-25 22:56:41
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jackie🌻 :
I so relate with the “selfishly I just want to be happy” - I had a MMC at 10ish weeks and I “got over it” kinda quickly because I just wanted to move forward
2026-08-25 17:10:27
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Sydney Wracher :
I like the lip stain!!
2026-08-25 15:29:03
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SierraOchieng🇰🇪🇺🇸 :
Yea that’s fucked up
2026-08-25 17:46:10
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chellynicole :
You just have the best mindset and energy
2026-08-25 16:47:06
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Laura :
And as cruel as this logic is -- this mindset is going to make you an amazing parent WHEN it happens
2026-08-25 17:52:06
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Grace Ivan :
Brooke I am so so sorry for your loss. Your attitude and perspective is completely inspiring. You have such an impact beyond your own understanding
2026-08-25 21:32:05
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mjr_981623 :
You are the most positive person ever! You’re so strong and I really look up to you in this journey. I cannot say I’m handling infertility with as much grace as you, but you give me something to aspire to be!
2026-08-25 22:04:03
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Diana :
Never been so proud of a stranger!! Such a good mindset, wish you all the best💖👏🏻
2026-08-25 15:45:17
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Lisa :
I am literally going through the same thing right now. Was supposed to start my egg retrieval meds July 3rd. Found out I was pregnant and ended in miscarriage at 11 weeks. Now I’m back in the damn wait. It happened last week and I just want the damn hormones out of me so I stop crying spontaneously and my boobs hurt. I want to be me again and not feel crappy. I’m not the lay down and mop girl either hence the emotional crap needs to end. Best wishes to you. My next retrieval date is going to start mid November bc I just want to enjoy the fall (our hunting season). Chin up my friend. We are in the thick of it
2026-08-25 16:32:47
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Lizzlee666 :
Where do you find the strength to keep going after all this and 5 years of trying?
2026-08-26 09:36:46
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Natalieclaireee :
You may have answered this in another video but did the clinic have you take any added progesterone / estrogen even though this was spontaneous? Also love your attitude on it all. I am here hoping with you! This is not the end
2026-08-27 02:49:32
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Makeup Becca :
So fucking unfair. So cruel and fucked up. I’m so sorry that this journey is a monster. You don’t need to be positive or unmoved by it. The grief is real. Sending you all the hugs and wishes. (And I do like your lip stain on another note lol 💗)
2026-08-26 18:43:00
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Try Honesty Pod :
Grief isn’t simple like that though. It continues and pops up. I lost my baby at 19 weeks and absolutely ppl have expected me to have that exact mindset of.. ok you were sad, we all go through hard things, get over it. But I held my baby and held her hand and my heart is broken and always will be. I don’t think it’s healthy to think we can just switch off grief after a weekend or however long. It stays with us and that’s okay and doesn’t mean we are losers or too weak.
2026-08-26 17:20:02
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AdrijoyC :
Your candor is refreshing. I can tell you’re desensitized. I’m the same way. Detached and emotionless. Dm me. I’d love to talk. Going on round 4 of IVF.
2026-08-25 22:02:16
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