Alice | Couples Therapist
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Tuesday 25 August 2026 15:34:56 GMT
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nonintendo3 :
No, it doesn’t happen overnight. It happens after a long series of CHOICES where the adulterer chooses to give their time and energy to someone else instead of their spouse.
2026-08-25 19:31:13
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bianca :
i got more and more annoyed as the video went on 😭
2026-08-29 00:53:55
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Miiikiiie One :
I don’t quite understand the people who say their partner can’t have friends of the opposite gender. We are all people at the end of the day. Simply having a rule that you can’t have friends who add value to your life because they aren’t the same gender actually leads to other problems imo. As a guy who has male and female friends I can say that I learn a lot from all of them. Isolating people based on gender and a sense of mistrust is not healthy. If anything, if the only way your partner will stay with you is by you controlling who they can be friends with is a sign that maybe they aren’t right for you.
2026-08-26 15:13:57
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A :
I'd never do that. The moment I notice there COULD ever be anything more than friendship, I put boundaries with that friend. It's called protecting your relationship!
2026-08-26 18:45:23
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Melz_7 :
This is why I don’t trust my boyfriend having friends of the opposite sex.
2026-08-25 17:14:43
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Blazin21 :
THIS is why I don’t strike up any “friends” at work. It never leads anywhere good. Always protect your relationship.
2026-08-25 17:49:38
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☁️✨ :
A physical affair doesn’t start in bed it starts with emotional intimacy that was meant for your partner.
2026-08-26 05:37:26
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Hailstorm02 :
All work married people should not have friends of the outside of work
2026-08-25 16:12:29
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Katt_927 :
How about a husband of 15 now ex, kept in contact with an ex from over 20yrs ago. Now they are married. We only just finalized the divorce 4 months ago.
2026-08-25 22:23:32
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Alejandra :
Thank you. I’m months into therapy with my wife because of her emotional affair with her coworker that become a full blown crush…. But all I ever hear when I try to talk about it is her voice telling me “I didn’t do anything. It’s not really cheating. It’s no big deal” etc
2026-08-27 06:06:21
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FCMcGraw :
I was the "other person" in the gray area. I didn't realized that until his wife found out that he was hiding our friendship from her. I basically dissappeared after that and realized that I was f ing it up. I am very sorry for it.
2026-08-29 19:44:30
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onoffdown :
That's why you don't even start a friendship with the opposite sex .
2026-08-26 20:37:58
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Luke :
But I am the crazy one for having an issue with their relationship….🙃
2026-08-26 00:58:44
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sparkzaddy :
I’d argue it almost always starts with the historical betrayer disrespecting boundaries and intentionally seeking validation. It avalanches from there. It’s like a drug to them.
2026-08-25 19:03:44
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_Vyxen_23_77 :
I don’t mind if my boyfriend has female friends, but I am especially wary of female coworkers because we started off as coworkers. If he befriends a female coworker, they’re needs to be transparency he needs to tell me about it. There needs to be boundaries. She needs to know that he’s in a committed relationship.
2026-08-28 22:34:38
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jahewrkzac7221 :
My husband’s female coworker is “just a friend.” So I’m also going to find my own “friend.”
2026-08-26 05:42:50
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No Caller ID :
God I hate humans
2026-08-25 20:44:17
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Kueenaayy :
It’s never just a friendship
2026-08-25 18:24:07
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Salad 🇨🇦 🇮🇩 :
If my partner chooses someone else, they can have them 🤷🏽♀️My partner is only mine if they choose me.
2026-08-29 01:28:20
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Mannyfresh559 :
Accurate as fuck
2026-08-25 16:43:39
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Caroline1971 :
They start going to lunch. They start meeting after work. There’s phone secret phone calls. The spouse finds out and makes him move out. That leads to a sexual affair.
2026-08-26 01:32:31
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daddycool :
I can see how a small fire turns into an unstoppable forest fire at a really fast pace.
2026-08-25 17:17:04
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Nez :
you can see the twinkle in his eyes the first time he mentions that co-workers name casually 🙃
2026-08-30 01:28:50
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lmr :
So if you really like talking and joking with a male friend instead of a female friend it’s an “emotional affair”
2026-08-25 21:41:56
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