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No thanks :
“You’re trying to change who I am”, literally asked you to just remember I exist bro
2026-08-25 23:38:57
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They think that basic communication and boundaries are controlling 😭
2026-08-26 08:36:35
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M :
It’s like they want a brain dead zombie partner😭
2026-08-26 04:13:31
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bogas :
"ohhhh anxious are just as bad!!!" not when that anxious was a secure that turned anxious because of an avoidant...
2026-08-26 08:24:05
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Hey_Si_Ri :
But they want you to cater to all of their needs and when you do they say it’s bare minimum 😂
2026-08-25 18:00:33
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janedoe2707 :
they're never this angry. they just freeze you out and act unapproachable 😂
2026-08-25 18:59:22
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hurrrrdurrrr :
Me being controlling was wanting her to take accountability for her actions and just listen to how it made me feel
2026-08-25 23:00:35
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Kev B :
They will never care how you feel and they will gaslight you into believing you’re in the wrong when you react to their treatment
2026-08-25 18:31:11
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moan_a_lisaaa :
He don’t yell or scream… he just ignores you for days that turn into weeks, then when he’s over it, it’s back to normal
2026-08-26 01:15:23
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Northernlight3397 :
They talk to you???
2026-08-25 21:22:01
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Doobie :
can you imagine refusing to do the absolute bare minimum but expecting your partner to do everything perfect? I just cant even wrap my head around that mentality, yet avoidants do it daily 🤷♂️its wild
2026-08-26 10:58:06
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🌱🐻 :
people with BPD too tbh
2026-08-28 11:13:05
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Jerry’s Runtz :
There go to line will always be “stop thinking you know me”
2026-08-28 13:16:38
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Devinhavinagoodtime :
What’s worse is that Avoidants think everyone else is anxious attached. No sweetie! We just want to feel like we’re in a relationship!
2026-08-27 16:04:48
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muffinz 🫧 :
When I was avoidant I’d tell my loved ones like “hey I’m really overwhelmed so sorry I’m not gonna talk a lot today”… that easy. I’m anxious now which really sucks because I understand that while it may be uncomfortable to communicate sometimes U STILL HAVE TO IF YOU DONT WANT TO HURT PEOPLE????
2026-08-28 13:14:57
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mustachefanaccount :
“I feel like you’re guilt tripping me” and it’s literally just asking for basic relationship needs and reciprocation
2026-08-25 19:22:24
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🌸 mimimae 🇳🇴🇵🇭🌷 :
sir I am just asking you to do the right thing for your child. guiding and controlling has different meanings lol
2026-08-28 02:46:24
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Emma :
I got “forced”
2026-08-28 13:15:16
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SoAbbyy :
I literally thought I was asking too much🤣he just didn’t have anything to offer😭
2026-08-26 16:35:05
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telekenieceis :
I begged him to spend quality time with me and he distanced himself from me because I put pressure on him. To do the bare minimum.
2026-08-26 18:40:57
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Mario Barajas :
Someone is going through this right now. 😭
2026-08-26 16:20:08
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spidy-man :
as an avoidant, some of these fuckers are just straight abusive 😭 like I have a hard time expressing my own emotions, but I'll always let my girl talk about hers and apologize where I fucked up ☠️
2026-08-26 09:50:30
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Oblong.Goombah🥓 :
I think i cracked the key to an avoidant.. they either need to be really new to relatiomships and/or really like you.. and they will change. itll still be hell and possibly not even worth it.. but my avoidant is night and day in one year. he used to freeze, run, avoid, defend.. and now he communicates (over communicates - not a bad thing), responds to my feelings rather than defend or bulldoze over them. considers me more than he used to. he still has work to do but he has changed so much in one year. but trust I have a lot of issues and trust problems as a result. sooooo im just here to report its doable to change them.. but may or may not be worth it. 🤷♀️
2026-08-25 21:33:49
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Katie :
“I feel so restricted” and it’s asking them to unfollow girls that clearly aren’t their “friend”
2026-08-26 01:47:40
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