@becomingzalina: i’m 41, and i’m a bit embarrassed to admit that… 1. sometimes i feel left out because i don’t have kids. it wasn’t really a choice, life just never lined up that way. i’m happy with where i am now, but sometimes being the woman without kids still feels lonely. 2. i still get imposter syndrome as an entrepreneur. i’ve built my own business and work for myself, but sometimes it’s not as busy as i want it to be, and i know there’s more i could be doing. sometimes i look at other entrepreneurs and wonder if i’m doing enough. 3. i’m still learning to love myself. i’ve struggled with that most of my life. i’m getting better, but i’m definitely still a work in progress. 4. i’m heavier than i’m used to being, and that’s hard for me. i could blame being in my 40s, but honestly, stress, getting comfortable and not prioritizing fitness all played a part. i know i haven’t been taking care of myself the way i’m capable of. 5. i don’t have a big circle. the people i do have are solid, but sometimes i wish there were more of them. like…who am i supposed to call when i need to go see the Backstreet Boys? 😂 6. i wish i figured myself out sooner. sometimes i wonder how differently i would’ve lived my 30s if i knew then what i know now. 7. sometimes i want to burn it all down and start over 😂 not because my life is bad. i just have this feeling that there’s something more out there for me. 8. sometimes i wonder what the “marriage + kids” version of my life would’ve looked like. i can love my life and still feel a little sad about the one i never had. 9. i’m grateful for what i have AND i still want more. i’m finally realizing those two things can exist together. 10. i still don’t know exactly what i’m doing with my life. 😂 i thought i’d have everything figured out by 41. instead, i think i’m finally getting to know myself well enough to figure out what i actually want. and maybe that’s what this whole next chapter is about. if you’re in your 40s and still figuring your shit out too, follow along. 🤍 . . . . . #MidlifeReinvention #WomenOver40 #LifeAfter40 #StartingOver #PersonalGrowth

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