@qmstoryhouse: When you BOTH work night shift in the UK… but someone has to stay with the kids. 😳🇬🇧 #L#LifeInTheUKukcareworker ##africansindiaspora#marriagetalk #nightshift
They should know each others rota & work around it. Both of them should not be on night shift same week
2026-08-28 17:36:08
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mightyb04 :
Is this competition? Is this not supposed to be partnership? Let one work night and one day. Let the man work more to take financial responsibility for the home.
2026-08-27 17:22:50
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chally :
I think that discussion should not be in front of the kids
2026-08-27 21:30:21
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chuchu :
Just build a community with 3 to 5 families and you all will be keeping your kids with each other family when there’s a clash, this life no hard oooo
2026-08-28 08:46:52
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Leanne Jones :
Shame they did that in front of the children
2026-08-27 20:44:48
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obaa_f33f3 :
Father, take son to work, mother, take daughter to work, problem solved 😂😂😂😁
2026-08-28 17:32:45
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Namajojo :
this is not acceptable talking like that in front of the kids...
2026-08-26 07:17:00
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Ennydura :
Una they fight for extra shift😂😂😂
2026-08-26 13:47:29
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Chezz Man :
This is Not husband and wife, but competitive partners
2026-08-26 09:56:29
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Nova_rosef❣️ :
Not in front of the children, please
2026-08-25 21:25:45
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The Kb and Mel :
But if he booked the Bank shift yesterday, then he should’ve communicated with his wife
2026-08-26 04:44:24
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belinda Morgan :
stop arguing infront of the kids
2026-08-25 22:57:25
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sbegum2010 :
so weird to see a couple fighting to go work
2026-08-25 21:08:24
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nellywambui97 :
Poor kids😭
2026-08-28 15:28:33
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Skyewolf :
Realities of family life in 🇬🇧, hmm
2026-08-25 19:22:25
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4_day :
AI generated, but true life stories for so many families. May the lord give them understanding 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
2026-08-26 17:23:09
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viki viki :
Get a nanny and pay the nanny 50/50
2026-08-26 08:04:25
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Shazzyxy🇬🇧🇿🇼 :
Theeeeeeesssseee children oh my God,
2026-08-26 10:41:39
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Sasababy :
Raising kids in abroad is not easy
2026-08-26 07:50:21
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simo :
You’re working to take care of the same family, why not resolve it amicably
2026-08-25 19:27:39
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Lea 🏴 :
They clearly need to communicate with each other about shifts to ensure that one is always at home for the kids work out a rota!!
2026-08-26 12:23:36
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TheSHONAspeakingZAMBIAN :
Communication is key, u dont take on shifts without the prior knowledge of your partner. It's just recipe for disaster.
2026-08-27 18:08:02
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itsatila :
This only happens when married couples are just sharing bills instead of truly building a life together. When you genuinely practise 1 + 1 = 1, all this competition over who works more, who earns more or who contributes more wouldn’t ever come up. Marriage is supposed to be a partnership, not a competition. A lot of people are honestly better off staying single.
Also, as a married couple, there shouldn’t be this “every man for himself” mentality between you two. If you want to pick up an extra shift, you should first check with your wife and know what her plans are. Ideally, you should both have access to each other’s rota in advance so you can plan your availability properly, especially when childcare is involved.
In this particular situation, I think it’s sheer irresponsibility on the part of the man. You don’t just pick up a shift without considering whether your wife might also be working that day and who will look after the children. These are things you communicate about and plan together, not decisions you make in isolation and expect the other person to somehow adjust.
2026-08-25 21:00:59
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Monique x :
Poor kids
2026-08-25 19:57:58
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