@mommom.maria: Grandparents, don’t put pressure on your adult children to babysit. They’ll ask you when they’re ready #mommom #motherinlaw #momtok #adultchildren #nocontact

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gaalbettina
LG Betti :
why are in-laws always obsessed to be alone with the baby?! screams red flag to me. i don't trust you if you want to separate a baby from the parents. what do you want to do with that baby alone?!
2026-08-26 09:45:56
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astoldbyniesh
nieshscelestialhaven :
My mil pressured us into letting her babysit our son when we both went back to work. Fast forward a few months later and she was literally mistreating me because she didn’t really want to watch him anymore…I immediately put in my two weeks and have been a sahm ever since ☺️
2026-09-08 15:38:13
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ky_yuh
Kaya | Made By Bellini :
When my son was maybe 2 months old we were invited over for dinner. When we got there the house was dark, it didn’t look like dinner was being made. MIL came down and we all visited for a while with no mention of dinner. The she said okay you guys go I’ll watch the baby. My husband and I were very confused because we were invited over to have dinner with her not leave our baby to go have dinner together. Definitely could’ve been a misunderstanding but that just one story I have 🙃
2026-08-25 21:16:53
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cheekyhua_
cheekyhua_ :
My MIL thought she would be babysitting every weekend so we could ‘go out for a drink’. Neither of us drink and she is an alcoholic who is drunk every night 😂 needless to say she will never babysit
2026-08-26 19:47:53
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sanitynow25
SanityNow :
My mil demanded overnights as young as three months and long segments alone at 6 weeks. When I said no thanks and that I was breastfeeding so I wanted to wait for alone visits, she went behind my back to pressure my husband. She told him I had anxiety and was keeping her away from her grandchild. It escalated for yrs despite her getting alone time monthly against my wishes. Yrs later she tells him that i just jealous bc our child loves her.
2026-08-25 20:58:48
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lah8994
lah8994 :
My mother talked often for the first six months about baby sitting. Asked what car seat she should get, surprised us with a bassinet at her condo the first time we visited, and also tried the gift card guilt trip telling us to go out so she can have one on one time. Her pressure made us even more uncomfortable than we had already been. I ultimately decided our kid isn’t safe alone with her because we don’t like what she does with us around, who knows what she’ll do when we aren’t.
2026-08-26 00:53:35
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sleepbear79
sleepybear :
those in laws would hate my husband and i. no one babysits our kids. the only time was when i gave birth to our younger son. since then no one has. my in laws understand though.
2026-08-25 23:09:23
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social_justice_now
JenJen :
I swear all these no contact parents are all narcissists.
2026-08-25 21:32:06
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kyleemaki
Kylee 🌟🎬 :
This just happened to my husband. He woke up to a text from an aunt (his mom kept calling/he was working each time she’d call) telling him how disappointed she was in him because he didn’t text his cousin on his wedding day. Mind you, we sent a card/money and we haven’t seen or talked to these people in like a year. 😂 I’m so glad we live 3,000 miles away, but even so, they try to loop us back into the madness via text/calls.
2026-08-25 20:51:23
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alliesteeen
Allie | True Autumn SAHM :
This exact scenario happened to me too 😵‍💫 I’m sorry other mothers are also experiencing it ❤️
2026-08-26 12:35:56
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gigemlaur
Lauren :
I know someone that their in laws booked a TRIP without their knowledge so they could keep their kids.
2026-08-25 22:16:13
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sarahb9871
SarahB9871 :
My parents are like this. Constantly bad mouthing me to all my relatives. I've just gotten over it. If you want to take their word for it, fine. If you try and intervene on their behalf, you will be shut down immediately
2026-08-26 01:49:46
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postpartumperplexed
Melissa :
They should also now never let them babysit. You can’t trust them to be respectful of boundaries.
2026-08-25 21:31:25
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mrsabbywalker
Abby | CLE + Travel :
We’re going through this currently and it’s been so frustrating
2026-08-25 21:00:36
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miranda_0798
miranda_0798 :
I was having a conversation with my sister in law, then all of the sudden she was telling me to let grandparents over and to let them babysit and to not isolate myself …… had nothing to do with the conversation we were having. Later found out mother in law was saying something to sister in law 🙃
2026-08-25 20:52:37
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a..krycek
A. Krycek :
Ugh, my mom always pressured me to leave my babies before I was ready, then when we did leave the kids with her she’d be totally unresponsive to texts and not give any updates. When I asked she’d say “I wanted you to take a break.” Turns out, being unable to reach the person caring for your infant isn’t relaxing
2026-08-25 21:16:59
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tabes0
Tabyre | Tabes | Tay-Bur :
i got sent job applications when my mil knew i was planning on being a stay at home mom 💀 she told me she could keep him so i “didn’t need to worry” lol
2026-08-26 01:10:21
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thealgorithmbroughtmetou
TheAlgorithmbroughtmetou :
Been there with my husband’s ENMESHED side of the family with a covert narcissist mother at the head. Firm firm boundaries. WE statements as a united front-never throw ur partner under the bus in these dysfunctional types of families. 💯💯💯
2026-08-26 03:56:34
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aschild530
a :
There are people that I trust to babysit my babies, and people that I don’t. I want to know that I can trust my babysitter to care for my child in the same way I would and keep my child’s routine instead of doing things “their way!” That’s why my sisters babysat my first when I gave birth to my second. My mom threw a fit that she wasn’t asked
2026-08-25 21:01:18
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kayla.nichols466
Kayla Nichols :
I don’t understand the whole have to be alone with baby, I had my daughter at 18, my MIL always insisted on watching her or taking her places and when we said no we were told we were being selfish and she didn’t get to spend any time with her. Mind you we all lived in the same home…
2026-09-02 14:39:14
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username3415112425
username3415112425 :
oh mommom maria how did you know i’m going through an identical situation right now 🫠. told my in laws for the millionth time i wasn’t comfortable with them driving my baby and they talked about me behind my back to my mil’s parents and brother in law and his girlfriend 🫠
2026-08-30 06:03:37
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woahhgirl
woahhgirl :
Manipulative moves by the in laws! So common
2026-08-28 03:45:30
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lochneasawwe
Ness :
I got a massage voucher for my birthday with the offer of “I’ll offer babysitting services while you get it done” no thanks. Dad can have him while I get it done
2026-08-27 11:38:00
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catiemariah
Catie | SAHM | homeschool :
Yeah they don’t need to use that gift card if they don’t want to!! We don’t do babysitters at all, my son is 5 and has a speech delay, I’m a sahm, why do I need a babysitter??? We had him to bring him with us everywhere 🤷🏼‍♀️😂
2026-08-27 21:56:05
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beadgirl614
KK :
Facts!
2026-08-25 23:11:07
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