@mackenzieherman: They always come back, that doesn’t mean you have to open the door when they do. Be on the lookout for these 4 signs, yes all of them, in order to make sure there will be safety for you when you open the door. #attachmentstyle #avoidantex #dismissiveavoidant #fearfulavoidantattachment #theyalwayscomeback
I don’t think she’s coming back. I think maybe I was the rebound person. 😔
2026-08-26 22:36:25
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Corey 🇨🇦 :
I just can’t see her being able to do any of those, I wish I could. She might say sorry but saying sorry for her seems to be a trigger in itself. She really seems dedicated to having those behaviors accepted and a normal part of whatever relationship she enters into, because I don’t think she believes she can change, I think she believes she’s stuck like that, but I know she’s not us, I think I know her better than she does but it doesn’t help that I know. I just wanna see progress of any kind and most importantly I want to see real communication
2026-08-27 01:01:16
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Greg Paulson1 :
One in a million - so you’re saying there’s a chance
2026-08-25 22:26:19
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JanetEM :
It’s been six months. After all my ruminating, I now understand he didn’t call or text because he just didn’t want to. There are no possible reasons that kept him from reaching out. So I’m not hoping he’ll call. Now I’m focusing on reinforcing my boundaries with the knowledge I gained from dating an avoidant.
2026-08-26 00:51:53
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~♡𝐿𝑖𝑜_𝑏𝑢𝑔𝑠𝑏o𝑦_𝑦𝑑♡~ :
thank god, he does all of those 4 things. when he came back he gave me a good apology, took really good care of me and even came to my place at night to be sure i got home safely. he even apologied to my friends, and this time he is actually tell me what he feels, needs and wants and if he feels the need tk step away for a bit he already apologieses before, makes it clear he's not leaving and still loves me deeply, and that it isn't my fault and that this isn't him breaking up with me, just him trying to step back a little to be able to be in a health headspace. oh, and he goes to therapy this time 😭🙏
2026-08-26 10:52:01
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Bob :
Trust needs to be earned.
2026-08-26 16:35:33
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Amanda Rachelle :
It’s hard to even change it when you do recognize it. That need to run is a safety feeling. So to ask someone to do the thing that makes them feel unsafe, is TOUGH. Possible but tough
2026-08-26 01:17:00
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Valentin Ionut :
what if I tell him i won't take you back unless you start therapy?
2026-08-25 21:29:43
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Caitlin clark
2026-08-26 06:11:16
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SuzanneCaron :
Amen please bring my Ari back! And please let him come correct
2026-08-25 23:18:00
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Nostromo :
an avoidant only wants access to use you
2026-08-26 08:23:56
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neil :
regardless, never take the avoident back
2026-08-26 11:02:05
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Terry :
Nope !!! She isn’t coming back PERIOD !!
2026-08-25 22:32:13
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Jake Madden :
She’s been gone for 9 months she ain’t coming back.
2026-08-26 08:16:01
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Roman Mina :
saving. just in case. it probably won't matter. but it is an important check list just in case
2026-08-26 03:26:46
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Fernando 🥸😏 :
I told mine I don’t want to hear I’m sorry
2026-08-26 01:01:48
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Ali HIZIR :
😂😂😂 JUST RUN
2026-08-25 21:23:34
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Koa :
I dumped them for shutting down and walking out of conversations. 2nd chance has begun.
2026-08-26 10:02:37
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agibson1482 :
he never apologized. he cheated on me and blamed me for the reason why he did it.
2026-08-26 11:32:11
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HiveMindSystem :
abusive attachment style
2026-08-26 14:35:11
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unarashae :
Then what tf were you waiting for. Go get your person back.
2026-08-26 16:32:32
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Bee :
Just buy a cross bike. You will forget they even exist
2026-08-26 10:30:00
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DragonRider :
facts
2026-08-26 19:31:24
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Brownlow.87 :
Never bye bye
2026-08-26 08:15:28
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Lexie Lopez :
Don't waste your time! Choose yourself & move forward.
2026-08-25 22:20:22
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