Amber
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incognito5383 :
Day trading is basically astrology for men.
2026-08-27 02:50:34
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Steve | Systems & AI :
You don’t need an Ivy League education to operate at that level
2026-08-30 18:13:31
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leftmypersonalitybackinprov,RI :
women are taught to pursue romantic relationships at more than personal growth. that’s one of the biggest issues
2026-08-30 00:14:02
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towel_4u :
i just came out of a relationship similar to yours, where my ex is in an ivy league while i’m in what’s considered one of the “worst” universities in the country. throughout our relationship, i was genuinely inspired by his drive, the prestige of his education and the people he surrounded himself with, and it actually motivated me to work harder and pour more into myself too. however, differences in education and perceived social status slowly became a huge issue for him. over time, he started seeing my path as beneath his. by the end, he was telling me he was embarrassed to be with me, that i wasn’t smart or ambitious enough, that i had “no future,” and even compared our relationship to a failed investment before leaving as he entered university. one of my biggest takeaways is definitely to keep investing in myself and my own growth, something i did learn from watching how much he poured into his. but i’d be lying if i said the way he treated me and ended things didn’t also leave me somewhat traumatised. i think i also learnt not to conflate prestige with character. someone can be highly educated, accomplished and surrounded by equally “prestigious” people, and still be incredibly narrow-minded in how they measure another person’s worth.
2026-08-30 20:32:22
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Sarah :
100%!!! I decided to pursue medicine myself after dating doctors 😭😭😭 I also stopped dating… haha
2026-08-27 05:01:49
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dalilou3 :
Very interesting. I had such a different experience dating someone who attended Oxford and his friends. I felt as though their conversations were kind of narrow minded and self-absorbed. I had much more in depth soulful discussions with ppl from across socioeconomic strata. I switched my own son from private school back to public because I wasn’t loving what was happening to his self-esteem and self-concept. Different strokes I guess
2026-08-30 00:22:46
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user2201635213 :
Over 40 omg you could pass for 27
2026-08-30 01:08:13
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vickyslight :
they are groomed to pursue growth, we are groomed to pursue love. as a self-employed woman myself, i see men going on annual ski trips with friends but really they talk about business. they hire each other. i feel like us women don’t do that. i want that camaraderie with other self-employed/ creative women tho.
2026-09-15 02:17:18
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layla :
just because we came from a rougher upbringing- that gives me the motivation and drive to be better and be “a winner” just because some things were handed to others to get where they are- doesn’t stop us from being where we want to be. we can do anything we put our mind to no matter where we came from.
2026-08-30 01:29:56
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Conscious Thought :
You become the average of the 5 people you spend the most time around. It makes sense that after dating him, you leveled up. People should always have a passion project outside of work that they are developing. It makes life worth living.❤️❤️❤️
2026-08-26 01:03:19
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Dr. Austin :
Reposting because I think people need to hear 1. Everyone has the potential to be a winner a lot of it starts with mindset, 2. Surround yourself with good people, 3. It takes time! 💪Thanks for sharing
2026-08-30 18:22:20
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Justine :
Girl you look 23
2026-08-30 03:03:53
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R :
I recently had this conversation with one of my friend! She wanted a partner who brings comfort and serve as her safe spot, where she can relax, rot and chill. I want a partner who pushes to me better and is able to guide me through difficult challenges. I think it depends on how your upbringing is
2026-08-31 02:01:15
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Art fan :
You seem very poised and intelligent…
2026-08-30 21:29:37
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marvinasroom :
They can talk about their career and goals cos all are in the same level so there’s no jealousy or less than the rest of people would experience how nice
2026-08-31 05:00:37
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adi :
Maybe this just has nothing to do with an Ivy League, but your self confidence & lack of vetting when it comes to people you considered friends. I’ve Never attended an Ivy League, but my close friends and i do these things. The people you are around are a direct reflection of you!
2026-08-30 16:21:51
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buygirl :
We love this reflection, give us 14 more
2026-08-30 10:47:38
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Shilpa💕 Love Coach :
I love personal development, quite literally obsessed with growth lol but it can also become another thing yet to chase. I’ve seen women say I’m not healed enough yet for love, marriage, and the kind of relationship she wants when in reality she’s just deeply afraid and doesn’t know how to apply everything she’s learned in to dating and building the kind of relationship she does want. That’s where I come in. Dating gets to be an incredible way to develop yourself even more deeply. You get to develop yourself and have love. 😊❤️
2026-08-31 13:56:59
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Isabel | UGC Creator | NYC :
some people are late bloomers. and that's OK.
2026-08-31 16:14:56
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Carmen :
Most relationships end up going nowhere. Better off self developing.
2026-08-30 23:40:31
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Linda’s_lil_farm 🥬🐓🥬🇺🇸 :
Interesting isn’t it, my husband has a PhD he’s an award winning scientist, professor, dean, top selling author in science, and much more…I barely made it through high school…you can see how cultural differences led him one way and me another
2026-09-18 23:28:06
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𝓍𝑜, 𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐥𝐞✨ :
I am forever changed after dating my ex, it’s like my mind was stretched open and I can’t go back. I look at how I spend my time and who I spend my time with more critically. I barely want to talk to the same people or dress the same. I am becoming obsessed with self-improvement and just craving a new circle.
2026-08-31 02:23:29
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CaptDom :
When you surround yourself with people that have goals like you describe, you'll start looking for other people. My parents drilled into me in a kind, caring way that I was smart and could do anything, and there was an expectation. That expectation wasn't harsh every day; it was an undercurrent that helped motivate me because along with the expectation, I knew I could do anything. My career was filled with a feeling that I could do more, and essentially, I was invincible. My friends were the same way; they had confidence like myself. I could take 10% knowledge on a new corporate role and bet on myself to level up the additional 90%. All my friends were the same way, and we would discuss these moves.
2026-08-30 12:17:32
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username13885489943 :
meanwhile so many women only wanna talk about who's dating who. I hate it! Thankfully, I'm blessed with a few friends who understand the value of balance
2026-08-30 14:56:39
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ciner :
Naaah, this ain’t about your upbringing but your will, many privileged people that I have met throughout my life are lazy ms… some of them are not, same logic applies with non privileged ones …
2026-08-31 00:25:47
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