@tmipodcastke: Sometimes “he’s a good guy” is the label we give someone so w can explain away everything else that doesn’t feel good👀. Just because he’s not abusive or a narcissist doesn’t automatically make him a good guy. Tap the link in bio to watch or listen to the full episode. #tmipodcastke #podclips #relationships

Edouard Ogwind :

People behave differently in different situations, especially when they stand to benefit, he can be the best guy in the room when he has to benefit, is his character situational 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

with yush :

Maturity is realizing there is no good guy.They just cosplay for whoever they want to keep around

Angry bird💕💅🏽 :

Lydia is so wise damn!!!

Sabz :

Lyd always oozing wisdom💯🥰❤️

user4259103503454 :

💯 I love you girl. I always say this

Barake 💞 :

This absolutely well articulated, We should evaluate, think and rethink before we make any decisions that matter. Especially to people in your life

ladyy_myra :

so there is Trauma bonding: It stems from a cycle where periods of mistreatment are followed by intense affection or "good behavior," causing confusion. So you justify.

Niss😍🎀 :

I get L's point.Kwanza if one has dealt with the abusive men,the bare minimum seems like everything!

Tekami🩵 :

what's that word you said on when you're intimidated with your lover's former person 🤔 I watched this episode and I agree

Being Flozie❤️(Kaluki) :

Clock it👌👌

Lad :

I hate it when women describe a bad mannered man then conclude "but he's a good guy,I still love him"🤦‍♀️where, when, how's he a good guy when he's doing terrible things to you? They will go on to say he provides,takes care of the bills, hence good guy😅

Dorothy :

Also the "Good guys" tend to show you shege in the long run! They are the worst because they are good at lying,pretending and manipulating!

Mninah🦋 :

Millanjoy :

yeah

meesosoup :

Jesus is the only good man that ever existed

Ruth Kui🥰🥰 :

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Janet Gatitu :

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@ Explorer A :

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