ScottAustinMartin
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Wednesday 26 August 2026 14:07:36 GMT
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user4892709107192 :
He always justifies his perspective. I just want to feel heard & validated.
2026-08-31 14:33:23
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Monty99 :
What are your thoughts on lies they told years ago? I feel like I don’t know what’s truth & what was made up.
2026-08-27 01:50:38
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ordinary. :
Don’t forget to tell these gentlemen that once contempt is showing up on your wife’s face regularly, the show is over. Sometimes it’s just too broken to save. I think if your partner doesn’t like you, then you should leave them…. Regardless of gender
2026-08-31 16:01:32
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Shannon :
Yes, my husband just keeps moving forward. If I don’t believe that he understands why his behavior hurt me to begin with, I cannot trust him to discontinue the hurtful behavior. I bring up the past to show that the pattern is still continuing, but if it’s not the exact same thing he’s repeating he doesn’t understand why they’re related. For example, “hey it hurts when you don’t celebrate me” told to him on Mother’s Day doesn’t get repaired on the following celebrations because they aren’t the same.
2026-08-26 18:31:32
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Kelsey Taylor :
Yes but what if the person wanting the repair refuses to accept the repair attempts saying they’re never detailed enough
2026-08-31 22:29:18
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Chikableh :
And he pretends like he never said the most incredibly hurtful things he said through the years when he knows fully that he did say them. I just need him to repair so we can move past it.
2026-08-26 19:48:46
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(((HBIC))) :
because changing the thing that bothers her...abd consistency is key ...
2026-08-27 22:34:15
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Ross MacKay :
Thumbs up
2026-08-26 23:29:28
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123456 :
now he is focused on my cptsd responses and how I hurt him with my responses instead of why I'm having a trauma response
2026-08-26 17:34:38
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Renee.Nicol :
Well if you broke it.
2026-08-26 19:44:11
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Jesicah Grossman :
Your insight is so helpful.
2026-08-28 17:29:24
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Lagransinver :
Yes you named it so well!
2026-08-27 23:46:13
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Lifeoffthegrid :
You are so good at explaining this so well ❤️
2026-08-28 14:21:20
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KD🇨🇦515 :
This is so profound
2026-08-27 11:53:43
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ladybug :
one of our counselors told me when all said and done its up to me, not fair he said but its true. who knows what stuff my husband unloaded in a private session.
2026-08-26 16:53:27
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MandyBoBandy :
Both me and my husband love your videos, thank you. We just bought two of your books as well. Thank you so much for your content!
2026-08-27 01:32:18
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123456 :
@123456:This is exactly what's going on rn...I ask for empathy and accountability and somehow it becomes about him and his feelings. He even goes into details about why I shouldn't feel the way I'm feeling. After 3 yrs of infedilty with not only a main Ap who he was in a long term affair with bc she's in a relationship and never stopped seeing her since him and started our relationship but with other multiple AP s
2026-08-26 17:32:56
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Monty99 :
This is really good advice for the dismissive in regard to past events. It would totally help repair if it was acknowledged and there was some empathy for the pain it caused.
2026-08-27 01:48:12
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LibertyStorm :
When you don’t forgive, God won’t forgive you either.
2026-08-30 03:44:46
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Nikframpton :
Just purchased your book online, thank you for your amazing work! I’m going to read it with my boyfriend who still struggles with defensiveness. Appreciate your knowledge and wisdom 🥰
2026-08-26 16:32:47
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Christina Harrod-Biddle :
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2026-08-26 15:35:48
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2026-08-26 14:18:05
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