@mind_yourboundaries: PART 1/3: A wealthy family takes a big luxury trip every year. Business class, luxury hotels, all of it. This year, Mom wonders if she should bring her 27 year old son's girlfriend of three years. Doing that adds about $25,000. Here's what I keep noticing, and I want you holding these before you vote: ✅ The son never asked to bring her, and the girlfriend has no idea this conversation is even happening. Mom brought the whole thing up on her own. ✅ Money's not the problem. She says so herself, they can easily afford it. So this was never really about the price. ✅ And she knows he's spoiled. She says that too. She raised him to love the finer things, so of course he does. Then comes the leap that got me… When the son retracts his yes and doesn’t want to downgrade his trip, the Mom jumps to, “maybe he’s not that into her?” Isn’t that a big jump? Okay, tell me in the comments. Who leaves the bad taste in your mouth here. Mom, Dad, the son, or nobody? Part 2 is where I tell you where my head went. PSA, this story was shared on a public forum and is meant for education and reflection. It's not here to replace advice or treatment from a licensed professional. PS, I hope this goes without saying, but just in case. This mom absolutely does not need to spend an extra $25k on her son's girlfriend. That's 1000% her call to make. That's not why I'm sharing this. There's something she said in a comment that caught my eye. We'll talk about it in Part 3. #storytime #relationshipadvice #boundaries #inlaws #relationshiptalk

Jess- Your Boundary Big Sister
Jess- Your Boundary Big Sister
Open In TikTok:
Region: US
Wednesday 26 August 2026 16:51:58 GMT
600133
14017
3276
498

Music

Download

Comments

origamitigermining
OrigamiTiger :
mum is testing her control, before they marry.
2026-08-26 22:03:45
2978
christine.marilyn
Christine Marilyn Bince :
Why is the son bothering me the most? He opts to go without his girlfriend of 3 years over Business Class and 1/2 a star on hotels? His girlfriend should run.
2026-08-27 04:26:05
4517
kjjetfan
KJ Jetfan :
I wouldn’t offer a trip unless it was all the same experience for them all. I think the mother was wrong
2026-08-27 16:15:37
2338
evrythinglynn11
Lynn :
If money isn’t the issue, Why invite someone that you don’t plan to host?
2026-08-27 16:48:34
1737
lovelaura8228
Love Laura :
They are both wrong, mum for testing the relationship with money she can afford, the son for not making sacrifices for his 3 year long relationship. Good luck to the girlfriend
2026-08-26 19:00:10
2355
travelcat888
Travelcat888🇦🇺 :
1. 27 year old kids should pay their own way and if parents are paying accept the lesser inclusions. 2. son sounds ungrateful 3. if your parents offer to pay part of the trip for son and GF they are lucky to have generous parents
2026-08-26 23:12:42
1133
sindii_
sindii_ :
The flight downgrade makes sense, first class for an extra person is expensive. But why downgrade the hotel? He'd have his own room either way, so him sharing with his gf costs them nothing extra.
2026-08-27 19:15:00
125
runner5nc
user4110535344947a a :
The son picked luxury over his girlfriend
2026-08-27 14:43:36
215
bigeoj73
Joe Mama :
Son is a snob. Mom is still willing to drop $25k on the girlfriend. Thats a good mom.
2026-10-08 16:18:26
0
dequafied
Dequafied :
The mother. She dangled an opportunity then took it away. She is creating unnecessary issues and planting doubt
2026-08-27 17:04:46
253
rebeccablake02
Rebecca Blake 🇨🇦 :
Mother in law is. While I don’t believe anyone is entitled to have another pay their way MIL is purposely excluding the girlfriend. You can’t say “she’d be a great addition to our family” then treat her differently than the rest of the family.
2026-08-27 17:11:13
48
aarkellc
aarkellc :
mom just wants to control. mom is the issue.
2026-08-27 00:18:55
160
vava_rosy
vovó_rosy :
Im confused. He IS going but leaving his gf at home or he is not going at all. Both scenarios are messed up. Either way, why would he expose his gf to such a classist, snobby mom. Keep her at an arms length and enjoy life with your gf. One day its all his anyway.
2026-10-09 23:47:51
0
whitnez
Whitney Weaver :
If money is not an issue then why make him choose? She’s meddling in some way. Is she trying to push him to propose? Does she want them to break up? She’s intentionally testing the relationship just because she can. She has ulterior motives. Son being so quick to uninvite the gf also speaks volumes. Maybe mom is trying to make
2026-08-27 02:39:52
342
user63997744307125
rafa :
The son sounds very selfish, he is putting himself before his GF
2026-08-26 17:26:34
620
colettejustme
colettejustme🇨🇦 :
Mom is already putting conditions in place. Either full include her or do nothing. She will be a terrible MIL.
2026-08-26 22:39:05
169
jody.ve.mc
jody.ve.mc :
The son is the red flag. And he is 27. Sounds like he is seriously immature too and relys on his parents finances. Couldn’t he offer to pay towards the luxury. This girl should run.
2026-09-05 07:33:01
59
nelliedondon
kmd :
Hey I'd be ecstatically happy with a free downgraded holiday in a hotel down the road from the gifters.....be no complaints here.
2026-08-26 21:56:42
214
cazreadsandcrafts
CazBudgets&Crafts :
I wouldn’t have invited her if I wasn’t going to pay for her to stay where we were
2026-08-27 17:38:05
18
feemitch73
Fiona Mitchell 🇦🇺 :
Why are his parents expected to pay full price for a grown adult? The son should be happy to downgrade to get a free holiday for himself and his partner……. Son is wrong here. It literally says they don’t want to spend an extra 25 THOUSAND dollars! The mother is lovely for offering.
2026-08-28 00:16:50
83
leorisinghair
leorisinghair :
I assume he’s retracting his yes because he isn’t coming either.
2026-09-14 05:33:33
6
chloethechiweenie
ChiweenieMama :
The son is wrong if people are in love they don’t care about how they get there just that he hey are together.
2026-08-27 12:11:34
9
lweitz
Lauren W :
I understand moving them to premium economy, but putting them in a different hotel does not feel ok to me and would alienate them.
2026-08-28 19:31:38
28
thaddeus.zaddyifyounasty
Thaddeus (zaddy if you nasty) :
The Mom sounds like the issue. If money is no issue and they wanted to extend an olive branch why would they have to “downgrade”.
2026-08-28 06:47:57
19
To see more videos from user @mind_yourboundaries, please go to the Tikwm homepage.

Other Videos


About