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lettuce :
I really appreciate you sharing KC Davis’ method - it’s been so useful as someone who is easily paralyzed with meds / a long to do list of cleaning responsibilities
2026-08-27 19:04:35
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Ashley Dale :
“Mess is morally neutral” said by KC Davis has helped me a ton to not stress about it as much and be less hard on myself.
2026-08-28 03:15:42
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boygodking (he/they) ♎️ :
At first, Genuinely thought u saying yr a “messy bitch” had to do with gossip 😭
2026-10-14 19:17:35
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emily 🍊 :
do you ever feel kind good when there’s some chaotic mess tho? my partner is super tidy/organised whereas i’m a hot mess (we just moved in together 6 months ago), i respect that we share a home so i keep on top of things as best i can (we also have our own bedrooms so that we can have one space where we have complete control) but when she’s away travelling, you best believe i am living in a flat of absolute chaos + i’d be lying if i said it doesn’t feel kinda good to surrender to my messy goblin ways ✨ she gets home on monday after visiting family in canada for 4 weeks so this weekend will be full of house magic 💞 i’ve accepted that i’ll never be someone who can maintain a tidy home, i kind of enjoy the process of creating lived in mess + then having a reset!
2026-08-26 20:53:53
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Siena Armstrong :
the morality piece is HUGE
2026-08-27 17:43:50
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✨️Hannah Rey✨️ :
your "house magic" term has really helped me✨️
2026-09-01 01:42:41
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carlycreatesss :
My favorite creator. You just get it 💘
2026-09-15 18:44:15
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girlstartrekfan :
You should def look into ADHD hacks for cleanliness. I have so many trinket trays/jewelry trays/hooks on my walls for keys, bags, coats/giant bins just to throw shit into at the end of the day and then when you clean you clean the piles are already collected for you! So you can spend time doing the dusting/wiping/vacuuming, I find it so much easier for me personally and also fun to try and get decor matching these needs for me. Work with your brain not against it!!! Morally neutral cleaning!!! But it also does soooo much for the nervous system completely agree as I’m mid move I’m Unwell lol
2026-08-26 23:16:15
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mills :
this is not on topic but what lip color is that it’s perfect
2026-09-05 19:09:40
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user2663682539617 :
Ok not to get off topic but what is this lip color you’re wearing??
2026-08-27 04:09:25
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Hannah Joy :
I’ve adopted house magic because of you and it makes cleaning so fun and rewarding ✨
2026-08-26 20:42:27
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La_gooze :
You're doing great and I admire you 🥰
2026-08-27 01:49:46
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egeee :
you've helped ME reframe my relationship with my messiness ❤️KC is also incredible, her method is a game changer
2026-08-26 21:30:27
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Lady_Unicorn_toot :
I took down all the art and pictures from my walls over the weekend. I put everything up in a rush post divorce and the chaotic energy could be felt. putting everything up again with intention was really put into perspective when my kids came home and said the house FELT different. I'm 40 and just now really learning that my home is a true extension of my body and treating my home with love helps me feel loved as well as making that love show through to everyone elss.
2026-08-26 20:20:44
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elderberry1312 :
i cant wait to look into this! right now the only thing that works is pretending a hot hookup is coming over 😂
2026-08-27 00:49:15
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For A Long Long Time :
Fully agree, @Kc Davis’ book and general framing has helped me so much - esp to not beat myself up if I can’t keep things as organized as I’d like
2026-08-27 00:47:52
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peace dude :
😂😂😂
2026-08-28 05:15:16
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