child i cant make friends. id rather be indoors then go out. i have MAJOR anxiety
2026-10-05 16:22:20
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John Mabe€na🤓 :
Then people think I am lonely, but they don't know this is how I truly find peace and comfort🥹❤️🩹
2026-10-05 15:09:08
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khensani :
Yah it’s lonely but To be honest it helps you for ur future self coz kubi outside kids are out here wasting their future
2026-10-05 06:51:12
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🤍... :
I actually don't know how to make friends. I want for ppl to approach me. And when they don't I've learnt to enjoy myself
2026-10-05 10:33:31
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precious ♡♡ :
my strict mom actually saved me from alot of things eyy 🥰🥰. looking back I'm glad she was that strict .
2026-10-05 09:10:35
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N.A🍡💗 :
I think my shyness is a coping mechanism. I become reserved when I’m unsure how I’ll be received😭
2026-10-04 19:16:39
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fisokuhle✩ :
Then you yearn to go outside and feel alive but because you have no one to go with, and going alone isn’t an option because you’re introverted.😞
2026-10-04 23:12:17
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b0410095 :
lmao , they keep asking me why I'm always in room and why I don't have friends every time it's recess. Little do they know , I live the same life at res as well and they're to blame.
2026-08-27 03:47:26
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Tsepo NV Mofokeng :
One moment you're actually enjoying yourself and the next you feel guilty for even being there in the first place, home or indoors is always the safest option
2026-08-27 03:48:17
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Nomonde🌸💕 :
Most of my friendships flop because I don’t know how to be a friend to someone. I’ve never had many friends growing up so angazi yenziwa kanjani lento.😭
2026-08-27 06:17:26
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😶🌫️ :
The other day, my mom told me to go to an old high school mates funeral, I said no because i didn't really know her like that and it would feel pretentious. She followed up by asking why I don't keep contact with anyone from high school or rather anyone I used to say is my "friend" and I responded with "they were never really my friends, because I was never allowed to have friends". She said, "Yaz, I raised you so well".. I just looked at her and walked away.
Being raised by strict parents really deprived most of us of so many social developments. As much as it saved us from most things, their projections and insecurities really created so many things that can't be undone.
2026-08-27 08:19:23
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Indiphile Kambi :
i don't have strict parent but i love staying alone 🥺🤏ngiyi introvert bandla
2026-08-27 05:22:13
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LELO_WENDUMISO NKAMBULE ✝️ :
Am i the only one who finds it hard to reach out to people or confide in them because i grew up dealing with everything alone. I had strict parents and I'm an only child so that combo made me both an introvert and got me isolating whenever i deal with something 🙃
2026-08-27 08:53:27
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TsholsNath :
same im struggling in relationships bcz i can go silent not talking...i prefer being alone and im always ready to cut ties yhooo😭😭😭😭💔💔💔
2026-08-27 06:40:54
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Simi🤎 :
That part of doubting every decision you have to make because you need an approval from them😏
2026-08-27 23:37:45
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Thandeka✨ :
Imagine being an only child raised by strict parents. People only look at the privileges and not the down side to it
2026-08-26 22:00:20
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lindtttt_m :
Then they become concerned when you’re older and don’t like visitors when they made you that way😪
2026-08-27 05:34:06
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vanessathwala :
And I lie, struggle to articulate myself, late reaction to situations 💔
2026-09-24 00:54:42
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ndlelezinhlemsomikhoza :
I stay indoors the entire week,me going out is reliant on someone else.If you cancel I’m happy🥹
2026-08-27 19:11:03
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samantha mthethwa :
i live alone, i sit alone in the dark, i talk to myself, i hate being visited, i love being at my place, i lock the door all day, people knock & i sit in there silently untel they leave, i had astrict mom growing up, socialising is an extreme sport.
2026-08-27 13:27:55
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Mbali :
I thought i was alone , I found you guys ❤️
2026-08-27 12:54:15
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Litha🌸 :
This yes but for me there's another side, it's made me very stoic. My parents see other kids being bubbly and having wholesome and affectionate relationships with their parents and wonder why I'm not like that - after all that conditioning
2026-08-27 19:43:56
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ndlela267 :
So used to hearing “no” I legit can’t make genuine connections
2026-08-27 03:55:03
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Angela🎀 :
Ma besithi let's go somewhere I decline, because I'm used to my own company babenosizi
2026-08-27 05:15:37
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