@notaveryhubert: 📲 Download Converso — link in my bio. You can teach someone what you like. You can't teach them to think about you when you're not standing there. Thoughtfulness. Integrity. Consistency. Those aren't skills. They're values. So you explain it better. You give another chance. They change for a week. Then it's right back to normal. Stop listening to what they keep promising. Start watching the pattern. 🚨 And this applies to both men and women. Manipulation is not about gender. It's about who keeps you explaining yourself instead of changing. Save this. ✅ If you're still teaching someone to care, it might not be a communication problem — it might be the wrong partner. #relationships #datingadvice #selfrespect #redflags #dating