@swimmer_2_winner: 1. “How does she feel about her relationship with me, and what does she want me to understand about our connection?” 2. “How does she feel about the work I’m asking her to do right now?” 3. “What does she want me to know about how she feels physically and emotionally?” I skipped 4 because she answered it with my previous question 5. “If she could tell me one thing that I don’t already know or haven’t thought to ask, what would she want me to know?”