@sonya_maya: Avoidance without awareness..a common dynamic that sabotages one’s ability to maintain genuine connections. Self-awareness & accountability are crucial (also super attractive when someone works on this & communicates well) but ooof! this dynamic is WAY TOO PREVALENT these days #gototherapy #drsonyamaya #whocanrelate #avoidantattachmentstyle #connection

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Mwathen85 :
I am 💯 guilty of this!
2026-08-27 06:41:59
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capricorncowboy0
Capricorncowboy :
in today's world with all the instant convenience of everything, most people don't understand what a journey is. you used to have to wait for a letter that could take weeks or months, now we are trained to panic if a text isn't responded to instantly. everything in this world is geared towards instant gratification, and anything that is viewed as an inconvenience to that instant gratification is viewed as something that needs to be removed. as well as everything in this world is geared to a throwaway society, you used to buy a appliance and fix and maintain it for 40 to 50 years, now every year you're replacing your appliances looking for the new and improved. is there any wonder that people view each other the same way now, as well as you themselves the same way. we're not talk to fix things, we're talked to get new things and discard things that aren't working the way we feel like they should. we've been taught to replace people as quickly as appliances, and we've been taught to ignore our own health both mentally and physically, in the pursuit of all this. and if you dare to step away from what society now calls normal, you will be ostracized and look down upon... I can see the problems, how to fix those problems becomes a personal journey, because society is something an individual cannot fix. I don't know if this helps.. best of luck you out there.
2026-08-27 06:24:11
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coolhandluke5150
Cool Hand Luke :
protecting my peace. it takes time to see people with out all there armor up. yes 4 to 6 months. the honey moon stage has to wear off. it most cases it not an avoident attachment style, its clarity.
2026-08-27 13:21:21
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mikbob5
Mike Bobbitt :
communication is key to all relationships
2026-08-27 09:29:54
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admacvot
AD Mac VOT :
I feel as though the strongest part of that is the awareness.. People need to become more comfortable with being honest with themselves and facing the vulnerability within
2026-08-30 01:25:55
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