@lostinisengard: also he is me btw. edit: yeah, i also think he never left the kitchen. but what i mean by this video is that he quit the version of cooking that was destroying him even though thats what he wanted for so long, but in the end found that it was the worst thing for him to be doing. so even if he is still at the bear because he realized what they had there was good. and that he wanted to be in the environment but not in the position that was causing him to feel like he should quit constantly.#thebearfx #carmyberzatto #carmyberzattoedit #real #viral
being good at something and loving something are two very different things. I'm great at sales and people around me would probably say I love it. but in reality I'm just good at the job.
2026-08-27 12:49:28
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Nugget_Lunch_Mmmm :
He didn’t love it the most, that’s the entire point of it. He originally did it to get back at his brother and discovered he was one of the best at it, so it was a coping mechanism to deal with his insecurity. He says during the AA meeting it’s the one thing he found that he wasn’t just good at but the best at. He never “loved” it it gave him nightmares, anxiety, ulcers, stupid levels of stress etc. His love of food was because he always felt it connected him to his brother and when he decided he was going to be the best at it, it was to get BACK at his brother. Once Mikey was gone Carm realized he never loved cooking in the way he was doing it and so he quit to free himself of it. Maybe he loved it at one point but he doesn’t anymore and he doesn’t want to do it just out of feeling responsibility to Mikey. He’s gotta move on with his life, Mikey’s not coming back and he finally realized that
2026-08-27 16:00:33
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UmmyShake28 :
You can love a job and/or a relationship and know it’s not good for you because it’s toxic and unhealthy. Know what’s best for you to heal and be happy in. Love,passion and skills aren’t enough.
2026-08-27 20:14:29
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wowjett :
Comedy Show btw
2026-08-27 23:17:50
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mia_colucci_macamoney :
I played cello and piano for over ten years when I graduated high school I never picked up an instrument or played one again i don’t see the point in continuing something im good at if I don’t have the passion for it.
2026-08-28 03:42:03
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miicch🕷️ :
no, he loved cooking WITH MIKEY and not cooking in general (but he did became so good at it he couldn’t tell the difference)
2026-08-28 06:19:05
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J :
You missed their was no love behind his culinary skills he was motivated to show people he was good at it. Cooking drove him into madness that’s why he quit.
2026-08-27 15:07:51
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eatingoutmore :
I did the same thing. Had a similar trajectory and all. Sometimes you have to leave what you love to see what’s worth it anymore. With all the limited time on this earth it’s best to always choose you. I have since come back to kitchens, but it’s taken sooo long and a lot of compromise
2026-08-27 16:07:21
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Miri🌲 :
I did too I’ve always loved cooking and wanted my own business. I fell out of love with it and I’m soon going into nursing
2026-08-27 19:43:13
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icooksometimes :
I cook professionally in real life, & ive worked at some of the kitchens shown in the series. eleven madison, the laundry, le bernardine, alinea. and I like your depiction and highly relate to it. I recently left michelin kitchens to become a private chef. 100 hour weeks for 13 years changes you. and I relate to what you said. I, too, never left the kitchen i just left the version of me that enjoyed that chaos and being so locked in that I was losing myself. I loved it. but now doing what im doing now, I found what I love the most to still be a constant but now in a calm environment. no chaos, just colors and food and creation.
2026-08-27 15:09:52
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C🏌🏽♂️ :
If you took the show that way fine… but the end left up to your interpretation as a viewer but do you really think he left after he basically told the architect interviewer how much he loves the kitchen… don’t make this an excuse to sulk carmy is 100 percent still in that kitchen
2026-08-27 10:25:31
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🐌SlugmommaYama🦙 :
I cook dinner every night. I don’t always love it, but it has to get done.
2026-08-27 15:39:47
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Max738384738 :
I believe he went back, I think the monologue was him realizing he still loves the bear and the people. Although they didn’t show it I’d like to believe he did.
2026-08-27 05:50:34
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christien :
Played ball for 16 years, love it with all my heart but quit cause I realized what I most wanted was slowly killing me from the inside, I realized I was chasing something for somebody I used to be and that person is not me anymore.
2026-08-27 15:40:22
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OmarCort567 :
Well it’s okay to not love something anymore it’s better to let go and start over
2026-08-27 01:35:04
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Eli :
Love doesnt make you immune to the pain and torment it brings.
2026-08-27 08:33:23
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n0izy :
went to culinary, I worked for 15 years in this industry, and now I am studying to become a nurse. I love restaurants,ive managed a few but to have a healthy, happy life with kids and a home the restaurant business makes those things hard to have.
2026-08-27 15:47:33
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PizzaNight98 :
Because i think it connected to a past trauma and grief with carmy .. he loves it so much.. but doesn't love the memories it brings.. carmy chose change .. because change is all he got
2026-08-27 16:54:49
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thedarkwizard :
I gave up cooking cause I loved it too much it would just swallow me:/
2026-08-27 14:22:32
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Jayla :
He went back to the south side
2026-08-27 11:52:19
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SS :
makes me so sick
2026-08-27 03:03:31
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Dony :
Song ?
2026-08-27 15:54:42
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𖣂 :
Movie name?
2026-08-28 07:09:35
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