@toshaclark: I survived what was supposed to break me. I loved when it would've been easier to leave. I forgave when I had every reason not to. I gave people pieces of me while trying to figure out how to keep myself whole. I became strong because I had to—not because I never needed anyone. And now I'm learning that strength doesn't mean continuing to endure what hurts me. Sometimes strength is finally saying, ‘This isn't enough for me anymore.’ I can love you and still choose myself. I can wait for an answer without waiting forever. I can have a soft heart without abandoning my boundaries. And I can walk away from anything that requires me to question whether I'm worthy of being chosen. #watchthis #notwhoiusedtobe #oneofakind