@kayleyxchai: Lesson 1 I’m learning before turning 30: understanding where I came from without letting it decide where I’m going 🚶♀️ I’ve been thinking a lot about how easy it is to explain the way we are by looking at where we came from. “I’m like this because I was raised this way.” “I’ve always been this way.” “That’s just how I am.” And sometimes, those things are true. Our experiences shape us in ways we don’t even realise. But I think growing up is also realising that we get to decide what happens next. I’m planning to do more of this series, so let me know, what do you guys want me to talk about next? 🤍 #life #learnings