@llysafaye:

sheena :

Being avoidant is truly a curse.

Xeviaaa :

To all the people out there who struggle with avoidant attachment, you all deserve to be loved. Y’all just need someone who truly understands you—someone who’s willing to dive deep with you instead of judging you for the way you think and feel. Kasi sometimes, you just need space to think, to reflect, and to process everything on your own, and most of the time, that’s the part that gets misunderstood. And to be honest, mahirap naman talaga yung nararamdaman ninyo. Y’all are the kind of people who make others wonder, “What’s going on inside their mind?” But that doesn’t mean your feelings should be invalidated just because other people don’t understand you. I used to be against things like this because, honestly, I couldn’t understand why y’all couldn’t just… work things out. I kept wondering why everything had to be so complicated. But as time went by, I started to understand it more. Maybe there really are people who simply won’t understand your point of view—and that’s okay. But please don’t ever think that makes y’all difficult to love. Y’all deserve to be understood. Y’all deserve patience. And most of all, y’all deserve to be loved without constantly having to explain why you feel the way you do. Kailangan niyo lang ng taong willing kayong intindihin at mahalin—even the parts of you that you struggle to explain. :) So yeah, hindi mahirap mahalin ang taong may avoidant attachment. Sometimes, you just have to understand that behind those walls is someone who’s also trying to protect themselves. And maybe, sometimes, those of us with anxious attachment can become the bridge—not to tear those walls down, but to show them that they don’t always have to keep those walls up. Because love isn’t always about forcing someone to open up. Sometimes, it’s simply about staying long enough for them to realize that it’s safe to.

UrFav_gelo :

ako anxious siya avoidant perfect combination ayun napa suko ako haha

ʟᴏʏᴅ. :

Avoidant sakin sa iba hindi.

R :

avoidant sakin pero sakanya hindi? tapos harap harapan pa silang clingy? samantalang sakin di nya ma express feelings nya o kung ano ba talaga ako para sakanya? tapos di sya sure sakin samantalang sakanya sure sya kahit pinaglalaruan lang sya nun?

ᴇʏʙ.♡🖤 :

avoidant partner is not a joke not easy to.... i was the only trying to fix everything... from the start i already know but i loved her so much and still understand her situation.... but still i ended up being alone and that's the hardest part of it until she gave up....

shin :

His pov btw

￴￴￴ ￴￴ ￴￴•мσσηιє :

karma kona ata 'to na avoidant ako and hndi marunong mag express ng nararamdamn kaya siguro pasuko na siya.

thalia :

eh nasubukan niyo na ba mag mahal dun sa bawal?

aj :

pang malalakas na halimaw magmahal lang ang avoidant

its.yuuji :

avoidant sakin, pero g sa iba?

lei :

hirap naman ng ganito yung tipong ang dali nilang mahalin pero ang hirap nilang pakisamahan yung tipong nagpapansin ka nalang para makuha attention nila pero pilit silang umiiwas

￴￴ ￴ ￴￴￴￴ ￴￴ ￴unknown :

e pano namn if ako yung avoidant tas sa huli ako na nmn nag sisi dahil sumuko na sya.

ۦۦۦ :

ako yung avoidant:<

seli :

kapag mahal ka magbabago, sadyang ayaw lang sayo, if people wanted it would be

K:) :

I am now in that situation na po, 5 days na po nya akong inignore po no chats and I even reach out on ani from of communication sa kanya po

￴￴ ￴ ￴￴￴￴￴ ￴ ￴￴ :

surrender na ako

RAY :

dito nalang muna

tven25 :

diko alam eh... avoidant ba talaga syaaa o nawala lang talaga ng interes saken? HAHWHSHEHEHWHWHAHAHA

AL VIN :

being secure helps trust me

PARK BO GUM 🦖 :

pers

lex :p :

sec

jake :

レクシー :

earlyyy

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