External processor here, always having my own personal meetings outloud. Confusing my family and friends if I’m talking to them or just myself. 😂
2026-08-27 15:49:51
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Hoochie La Hoot :
I externally process a little bit with 5 different people to not overload my partner.
2026-08-28 05:37:37
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Geeked :
External processor, but an internal processor when I take my adhd meds
2026-09-06 13:33:56
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cheetodust :
It would’ve been perfect with some 80’s corporate motivation music at the end
2026-09-07 03:57:42
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Spaceysweede :
Internal processor: Figures shit out and have a sense of self
External processor: Wants others opinions to form their own self, since their sense of self is low/flawed/shaken/damaged
2026-08-30 11:24:33
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Sarah | Consent Ed :
What if the internal processor comes back with a misunderstanding of what I said? He's spent a lot of time processing something that wasn't true for me
2026-08-28 15:20:21
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Sebu :
I'm an external processor and I get flamed for walking through my thoughts and so now I'm a "not at all" processor
2026-08-29 11:27:11
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Myriam Vergeti :
External in relationships is amazing, external at work is my nightmare
2026-08-28 09:34:05
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Happy Melissa :
Are we sure we are supposed to be in “relationships”? Honest question.
2026-08-27 15:48:04
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lettie🧚🫶🥰 :
add another layer to it. Im a hyperverbal Autistic who processes internally, my best friend is and external processor with selective mutism. Make it make sense 🤣 "you went quiet, youre never quiet, are you mad" vs "let me talk a sec but dont give me advice"
2026-08-30 13:50:06
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Jules :
having a boss who is an external processor when you are an internal processor can get really tense
2026-08-27 15:50:05
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ArtWitch :
that would be incredible, but my internal partner tends to take my attempts at regulating the situation (for example 'how about I give you an hour to think and we can come back to this') as pushy, forcing him to do something or just an attack.
2026-08-27 15:11:20
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AuDHD Social Coach Lee :
Where are my neurodivergent folks in this?
2026-08-28 00:46:59
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NetworkPIMP :
Imagine the chaos of 2 external processors trying to process the others processing ... fml
2026-08-27 20:27:17
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Unc404 :
I love this channel
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2026-08-27 15:26:53
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Charro_Beth :
Definitely me and my hubby
2026-08-31 10:51:53
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Julie Tay | Over 40 Fashion :
When problem-solving I have to say the bad solutions because it helps me get to the good solutions.My husband’s like why would you even suggest something like that, it obviously won’t work. I KNOW!! but I have to lay out every possible option. The bad ones, AND the good ones be able to make a decision. And sometimes the bad ideas make you think of something else that actually is a good idea that you never would’ve thought of if you wouldn’t of said the stupid idea 😂
2026-08-28 16:46:55
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Emery Steele :
its depends on if i feel like i can express myself in the relationship
2026-08-31 12:48:54
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Gardenurse :
I’m a external processor and my husband is an internal processor and he lights on the first idea I have and goes with it like we actually decided while I’m still thinking about it before I have a solid answer.
2026-08-31 06:31:42
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Kelly :
My husband learnt the word process and said he get back to me, that was six years ago!
2026-08-28 21:41:06
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