Kate Gray, LMFT
Region: US
Thursday 27 August 2026 15:12:14 GMT
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ThreeBeersIn :
This falls between word soup and toxic advice. Walking up to parents in a restaurant and inserting yourself in any manner is a fast way to spend the night talking to cops. Love your message overall.
2026-08-27 16:03:56
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Jane doe :
what if it's both?
2026-08-27 15:22:29
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almatron14 :
honestly i feel like when people say “i don’t hate kids i hate their parents” they’re really just saying they hate kids without saying it.
2026-08-29 04:59:28
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Onnanoko :
Sorry but if your are childless what Will happen with what you say its that either the parent Will become agressive and say WHAT DO YOU NOW or they'll take this help for granted and ask for more i don't wanna parent grown people nor kids
2026-08-27 15:26:27
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Make me 😘 :
They always think saying this makes it better! It’s doesn’t. A child is behaving like a child and it doesn’t mean a parent is failing.
2026-08-27 15:24:55
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margotmadison1 :
This reminds me of a time I saw a woman approach a wild child in public and just say “do you need help?” This response blew my authoritarian raised mind and I try to remember it when I’m going down my own Judgement Road 😅
2026-08-30 12:50:40
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cass 🧞♀️ :
I've noticed this is what they all say now
2026-08-27 16:52:40
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Ash😇 :
Yeeeessss as a kid therapist I have a daily “staying mad at the parents is not productive” holding contempt for the parents clouds your judgment and I can’t show up for the kids or tap into resourcefulness. It’s also the quickest way to burn out. So I think “how can I build a relationship with this parent?” Or if they’re really obstinate “how can I connect with this kid and arm them with the skills to be there for themselves when I leave?”
2026-09-03 16:26:30
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djoj :
The very hard quest of changing your focus towards helping the victims instead of taking revenge on the perpetrators... Attacking the perpetrators often doesn't actually help the children. 😅
2026-08-27 20:32:14
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strawburst🇨🇦 :
love this reframe. I often feel this way about bad pet owners ha. thank you.
2026-08-27 15:24:57
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NO VEIL RECOVERY ON YOUTUBE :
truths**
2026-08-27 19:40:28
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lola_lopez9 :
👏
2026-08-29 15:29:01
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syd tha kid :
Yep I’ll glare the fuck at stupid parents that let their dumb kids scream and crying constantly in a public place without interrupting that pattern and taking care of it
2026-08-27 17:26:51
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