If they come back after leaving you it’s to treat you as just another option. Move on for good and find someone who doesn’t need to lose you to realise how great you are (and newsflash: the avoidant never will)
2026-08-27 17:09:33
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Javi :
Not if they are in a rebound. One day she stop talking to me , not even a breakup conversation, she just disappeared. Two months later I found out she is dating someone else…
2026-08-28 14:26:47
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𝓐𝓵𝓵𝓲𝓼𝓸𝓷˖ ࣪ 𖥔 ࣪❦💋💜 :
this is fucking exhausting btw
2026-08-28 05:43:36
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Ian Clark :
We got back together and then separated again one month later. All the things she cited about how when I pulled back or left her with uncertainty and worries because of my silence, were all the things that I felt when she didn’t reply to texts or responded in a cold way when she did reply. It seemed so wild that she basically vocalised the things I had felt, and yet she claimed that it was only me who pulled back without explaining my thinking and that she never did that.
2026-08-27 17:17:12
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JenRuckus35 :
I’ve spent the last five months in no contact with my avoidant and still completely heartbroken… for the last two weeks we’ve started seeing each other again. And it’s like I’m checked out and I could care less if he stays or goes. How the roles have reversed.
2026-08-28 02:09:37
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nononononnonononononno :
My FA ex his ex did toxic game he totally lost interest n moved on with me
2026-08-28 09:14:11
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Liad Goldenberg :
Until we don’t 😁
2026-08-28 12:57:07
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merr!(billies version) :
how do i fix the relationship?
2026-08-28 20:48:33
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ItsaMeDewgy :
My avoidant ended things, and when we still talked, work got busy so I didn’t reply for 5 hours. She said “are you ignoring me!?!!??” I wasn’t, but even if I was, why do you care when you are the one who ended things??
2026-08-27 20:49:08
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ed_nut25 :
I did nothing after he ghosted and then boom i got blocked like he literally pushed me to the edge and then blocked me because I’m not chasing him 😂
2026-08-28 13:05:01
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ApexDovah :
Are avoidant and anxious just incompatible cuz this sounds exhausting?
2026-08-27 16:43:09
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Bella :
he moved on to new girls not even a week after , it’s been a month since he ended things w me I don’t think he misses me or is coming back
2026-08-27 22:22:52
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Immaaaausseerrr :
does this apply to beat friends as well? a couple of things happened between us(mutual of course) but he's a definite avoidant
2026-08-28 04:51:47
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Marcoo :
i dont think this aply for long-distance situationship (2 months) right? 😂🥲
2026-08-27 20:50:56
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samkat :
exactly,,, that's the point
2026-08-27 16:35:05
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CarlosG :
well she pulled back with the relationship but i stayed and let her have her own space within the relationship but she didn't looked at it like that now she left without talking anything that has me in it i don't bother her at all but now i dont want her back because she disrespected me and she got another guy
2026-08-27 21:55:40
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Dora :
@DR SPIRITUAL KAREEM help me
2026-08-28 01:14:31
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