Abefroman
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Thursday 27 August 2026 19:39:29 GMT
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Ryan James Hilt :
My biggest pet peeve is when I’m trying to relate to somebody by offering a similar story to paint the picture that I understand what they’re going through and then they take it as a form of selfishness or an annoyance.
2026-08-30 19:06:40
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egg_38 :
Im trying to unlearn this so bad 😫😫
2026-08-29 17:13:37
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Naomi619 :
Unfortunately I feel like yall dont know how to have conversations anymore because being able to relate or at least sympathize with what they are saying is part of having a conversation. Otherwise how long do y'all think a convo will actually last?
2026-08-29 20:58:26
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🐌 :
YES bc a lot of ppl aren’t actively listening, just waiting to share what they have to say!
2026-08-27 21:32:47
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Alyssa Taylor :
I tend to do this to better relate to people but have started noticing how bad it is, so I’m trying to learn better conversation skills to combat it and balance out my conversations
2026-08-29 13:06:18
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ddawgg69 :
I’ll ask a follow up questions and they give the driest answer so I start talking about myself after
2026-08-29 17:29:06
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The Pragmatist 🇺🇸 :
Most people lack a genuine interest and curiosity about others. They want you to be the quiet, active listener who cheers them on.
2026-08-28 07:06:15
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Monettt :
People severely lack genuine curiosity
2026-08-28 05:06:39
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dia 🇵🇸 :
it's actually hilarious how many people are furious and defensive in your comments I expected you to really get mean in this video but nope genuine helpful advice
2026-08-29 19:34:02
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Momo :
Hot take, I don’t care if a conversation goes back to the other person …
2026-08-29 18:44:49
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Aniysa Myrille | UGC Creator :
I only do this when the person isn’t asking me any questions in return lol
2026-08-29 18:51:50
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blonde.opinion :
& they are usually one uppers. “Oh you experienced something? I did too, before you and better” 🙄
2026-08-29 17:54:26
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Lillylover :
Thank you for this lesson ✨respectful and educational
2026-08-27 21:05:16
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Kate Grimm :
As someone who does do this, because I crave connecting with people, I get so annoyed with myself.
2026-08-29 17:56:40
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Lucie 💕🦄🍋 :
I fear I won’t stop doing this… but I also think it’s a valid thing to get annoyed by. I would just suggest people who do get annoyed by it to not be my friend.
2026-08-29 18:17:15
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mel ⋆✴︎˚｡⋆ :
i’m always so afraid i’m doing this :(
2026-08-29 15:57:18
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🌹 :
I be having to correct them .. like actually that doesn’t correlate at all
2026-08-29 18:58:45
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Skoort🧟♂️ :
I can't tell if I'm making it about myself or just making statements from my viewpoint. But also I don't wanna like interrogate ppl 😭 I feel like if I also answer, then maybe they'll feel less pressured?
2026-08-29 16:48:18
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Beige Warrior :
Relatability is a sign of paying attention
2026-08-29 18:23:23
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lexus nevaeh! :
or complaining about their life constantly like everything is so detrimental to them
2026-08-29 18:42:18
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sangah.inmotion :
Sometimes I catch myself doing this- I wonder if because I’m getting old 😂😂😂😂 I need to work on it better
2026-08-27 20:31:51
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tracysindledecker1 :
One uppers are downers
2026-08-31 02:12:22
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I do it because people don’t ask questions back and it feels like an interview otherwise. Maybe they don’t f*ck with me 🤷
2026-08-30 20:34:47
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🗣️{💀💀💀} :
i think the best way to deal with this is to stop attributing malicious intent to the most value-neutral of common communication differences.
2026-08-29 16:18:32
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