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FatimaKarama☺️ :
Nah that’s a misconception. If they’re toxic you’re allowed to keep your distance
2026-08-28 06:38:55
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Islam doesn’t tell you to side with oppression, if your family is genuinely causing you harm or suffering, you’re allowed to distance. I think that’s the important distinction, you don’t have to play nice or keep in contact just to ‘keep ties’. Why would Allah want you to suffer
2026-08-28 08:34:56
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diya :
Top ten tiktoks of all time
2026-08-28 02:07:31
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ppgabpooga :
from what I read it's completely ok to distance yourself from family members if they're negatively effecting your wellbeing, and especially if they're physically harmful. You're only not allowed to cut off family members for very insignificant things or for no reason.
2026-08-28 03:10:23
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𝔔𝔲𝔦𝔫𝔫 (𝔏𝔢𝔬𝔫'𝔰) :
I just wish them an eid mubarak
2026-08-28 04:48:10
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🌙 :
Nah in islam you can cut people off if they’re harming you in any way
2026-08-28 11:46:59
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HmeGrlHalwah :
I just send texts. They see them, they don't respond😭
2026-08-28 03:28:37
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cs :
my way of being a good Muslim is to remove those ppl from my life 🥰
2026-08-28 04:02:08
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nl__568 :
I can't even hold it with my dad let alone his family, they are all evil as hell except for one person and sadly he died
2026-09-09 01:43:39
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Z :
Many of you don't know the seriousness of cutting off family ties in Islam and it shows. Many of prophets and messengers went through many difficulties due to harmful family members and were never told to cut ties. Study the deen. If they're harmful do your part to maintain ties and keep your safety. There is no severing ties.
2026-08-29 04:55:37
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Kiddy_b94 :
It do be like that 😂
2026-08-27 22:11:49
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bluey :
always tha dads side
2026-08-28 15:00:55
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ރAdam :
if they’re bad people who want to hurt you or if they’re just mean, you’re not obligated to give them affection or keep in touch, just accept they are your family, and at some point (if any) they were dear to you, and the move on.
2026-08-30 04:57:25
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shamz :
It starts and ends with Assalamualykum. Does eid and Ramadan forwards count
2026-08-27 23:23:25
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😴 :
"And be patient over what they say and avoid them graciously." Qur'an 73:10
2026-08-30 04:43:07
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Zain36 :
with your parents, yes, you have to try hard. but with the rest? no. you can drop them. especially if you tried but they kept their toxic behaviors.
2026-08-28 12:35:38
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Safa Hamed :
💀 they blocked me
2026-08-28 08:12:22
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Kenshi's left pinky toe :
Last time we reconnected they did sihr on us 🥀
2026-08-28 23:04:50
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delighttastee :
Depends on the situation. Islam never teaches us to uphold ties that are way toxic and harmfull for you.
2026-08-28 13:10:18
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Rosa✹ :
The comments saying “you can NEVER cut off a family member” are taking the command to maintain family ties way too absolutely. Yes, silat ar-raḥim is extremely important, and you cannot cut someone off because of one disagreement, anger, spite, or simply because you dislike them. But serious abuse is not the same thing. Allah says about Ibrahim عليه السلام: “When it became clear to him that he was an enemy to Allah, he disassociated himself from him.” (Qur’an 9:114). And Sahih Muslim 2561 is specifically under the chapter “The Prohibition of Forsaking Someone for More Than Three Days for No Legitimate Reason.” So even the prohibition itself recognizes the concept of a legitimate reason. Nobody has the right to tell an abused person, “Just endure it, they’re family.” If someone is genuinely harming you physically, sexually, emotionally, or otherwise seriously damaging your wellbeing, protecting yourself and creating distance is not the same as cutting someone off out of spite. Every situation is individual. The people commenting do not know your circumstances, what happened behind closed doors, how severe the abuse is, or what would actually be safest for you. Allah knows your situation and Allah knows your heart. So please don't blindly follow a random TikTok comment telling you what you must do with an abusive family member. If you are able to, speak to a trustworthy local imam or qualified scholar who can hear the actual circumstances and advise you according to Islam. Do what you can to protect yourself from harm while staying within what Allah has commanded. Sometimes the test is not “How long can I tolerate this?” Sometimes the test may be having the strength to remove yourself from the harm. And Allah knows best.
2026-08-29 01:44:48
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aaaa :
Yeah I cut ties with them ✌️
2026-08-29 05:50:40
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Nora | Reiki Master :
You don’t have to keep a relationship with anyone who causes you any harm, Allah(swt) never called for us to suffer unecessarily
2026-08-28 16:55:26
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