@frankmckinleycoach: You know the move: you bring up their behavior and suddenly you’re defending something you did five years ago. Nope. 😂 #DifficultConversations #Boundaries #CommunicationSkills #Conflict #Mindset
I told the judge this from a 2018 ticket..he gave me 2 weeks in jail. 😏😂
2026-08-28 18:12:52
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LauraC911 :
There's a time and place! They should have tried to repair if something bothered them within a reasonable time. Or, if still not ready to talk about it, don't bring it up when someone's trying to talk about something currently 🫥 It's silly if you think about it, as it certainly doesn't sound like they want a repair either. Its ONLY being used as ammo. Maybe they didn't seek repair it on purpose 👀 But that makes no sense to me
2026-08-28 15:49:09
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BEVY 🐬 :
Oh yes everytime
2026-08-28 23:21:35
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denisesokolowski15 :
my brother constantly does this to me. mistakes from 30 yrs ago!! omg
2026-08-28 14:01:14
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Seahorse :
Thank you, basically stating their superiority of something that has nothing to do with current topic.
2026-08-28 13:56:31
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... :
what if what they’re bringing up is relative to their current argument. Example: “why don’t you ever call me on your way home from work? Because I didn’t know I was supposed to, you never call me, remember, we got a big argument six months ago because I wanted you to call me on your way home and you never did, you never do. Now I don’t call you on my way home from work because it’s not important to you” and then you get accused of bringing up old arguments not letting it go. It’s relative to the current discussion that’s why it is brought up.
2026-08-28 11:41:48
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Wesley :
"people don't forget!"
2026-08-28 04:14:22
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Court :
My mum does this, and is very rude and mocking with her delivery. It’s hard to keep a cool head and control the urge to defend myself. She is skilled is avoiding any accountability, she spins everything in a way that puts herself in a position of the victim or the virtuous one. She ties together unrelated past events and makes a story about me to make me look like a bad person.
2026-08-28 03:03:03
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donnapass :
my neighbour up the road does this, she even starts arguments about other people's kids when it's already been solved! I had to call the police on her for standing banging on my door saying I had to bring my child and myself outside to her! SHE'S 9! I REFUSED And called yhe police, she told them thing's (along with the other neighbours) about thing's that happened YEAR'S ago. They all chipped in because I don't talk to them and they are a sort of click together. My other neighbour that started chipping in was sent out of my home because I didn't like how she spoke about my then 3 year old. She hasn't liked me since. The other neighbour chipped in because she just doesn't like me and listens to the others and just has to fit in. It's disgusting if you ask me.
2026-08-28 09:41:58
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autistic☺︎mystic :
What if they just make global accusations and never actually explain what you did and give specifics and refuse to see that you want to take accountability if you need to! To get accountability, don’t you need an account?
2026-08-28 11:51:58
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Askaandk.reecenichols.com :
how about when they were 14 yrs old and they are now 30!!!
2026-08-28 13:17:42
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MohammedAlmulhimد.محمدالملحم :
When he said “you know what I mean” he meant for sure your wife bringing 10 years history in 2 minutes argument 😂😂
2026-08-28 13:59:01
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SnoBLawn :
👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
2026-08-28 00:59:05
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