@thevalerieadams: Secure woman power move for when he’s not texting you back 🔥⤵️ This will especially support you when you KNOW that he’s for sure seen your message and for what ever reason he is being distant or giving mixed signals. Firstly, it’s very common to feel anxious, out of control, or in fear when you have feelings for a man and he pulls back. You are in uncertainty and your brain is wanting to find a way to get back into control. You think that hearing from him or knowing he’s still interested will take the anxiety away - but that’s NOT the truth ❌ 
The POWER MOVE is knowing that the lack & anxiety you’re feeling is not actually about HIM… HE is not the root of it. The secure woman looks at: “What am I trying to get from HIM, that I can actually give MYSELF?” 💎 She decides to be the source of her own SECURITY, because he never had the power to make her feel secure (which means he also doesn’t have the power to make her feel insecure) If insecurity is popping up, she knows it’s time to use her tools & do some inner work to take her from feeling anxious to secure & enooered. And not surprising, when she’s in this space of taking responsibility for her own emotional state and tending to her inner world… This is when the guy will come back OR space will be cleared for an even more intentional man to step in. Why? Because when you are choosing YOURSELF, you magnetize the right people and repel the wrong ones away 🧲 Secure women aren’t better than anxious women - they’ve just developed the habit of being able to walk themselves through ⤵️ Triggers, heal patterns that aren’t serving them, and step into a confident and empowered state WITHOUT needing another person’s actions to change. If you want to learn the tools to become the most secure version of you in dating so you can attract a healthy relationship This is exactly what I guide you through in the SECURELY CHOSEN COURSE 🌹💻 Get started with the course at the top of my profile page . . . #dating #datingadvice #datingtips #datingadviceforwomen #manifestlove

Valerie | Dating Coach

Open In TikTok:

Region: US

Friday 28 August 2026 02:50:12 GMT