The problem here is people don't accept the kids'nature and talent, each kid is born different , you can't expect they will be the same even if they were twins. No one knows better than their parents. So please don't judge or blame them. As the parent we all should support and accept their talent or capability. You should not push and force them if they really don't like or are good at that. We all should also accept , support and be happy to see them comfortable on their own skin. Let them enjoy and don't feel forced to meet your expectations when they are not even three years old yet. Please love them just the way they are and don't blame parents for treating the kids not fair. Parents love and know their kids best!❤️