@hydenoutloud: Ladies, never do this when you first start talking to a man. #dating #datingadvice #single #oklahoma #genx

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Athena :
She knows what she wants & doesn't want. No wasting of anyone's time.
2026-08-29 00:42:47
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carlafarrior
carlafarrior :
what's your age limits of women you want to date?
2026-08-28 18:02:59
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zuzanaludlow
lola-baracuda :
My non-negotiable? Too many negotiables 😂
2026-08-28 17:43:49
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pupfoster
pupfoster :
The logic is time savings. We won’t waste time with men who don’t meet our expectations. We’re comfortable alone, so to allow a man access to our time, he needs to improve our lives. If he can’t, we move along.
2026-08-29 15:16:34
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legna1392
Angel❌❤️❌ :
I think she’s just trying to be thorough. At our age no one wants to waste their time or yours maybe. It’s interesting that she had an extremely long list and you didn’t have any…maybe you guys would mesh well!
2026-08-29 03:47:42
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juliett.victor.tr
Juliett Victor Transport LLC :
She must be younger, I can’t remember my non negotiables lol A detail list is to much!
2026-09-03 17:51:05
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lilasinchicay
Lila Sinchi :
she is waisting her time, she is scaring the good guys out because she gives the impression of been to much, while the narcissistics and cheaters are going to fake been the person she is looking for.
2026-08-29 02:15:46
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ascension.me
Mel V :
Maybe it's a never again list! Good for her.
2026-08-28 18:27:34
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davidlillard8
Lizard :
All of life is negotiable. I feel sorry for folks that are so stringent in their life that they are missing out.
2026-09-03 10:57:53
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grandma07071
grandma07071 :
Then you didn't think she was worth your time. And, you were not with hers....
2026-08-29 17:27:51
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okchrista4
okchrista :
She has high standards and doesn't want to waste her time. If her standards give you the ick, they did their job.
2026-08-28 16:59:07
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kerrie2658
KerrieFlynn55 :
She's leaving more out there for me!!!!
2026-09-01 01:53:12
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jillsimsbullock
Jill Sims Bullock :
Why? She knows what she doesn’t want.
2026-08-28 17:32:27
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sandrafarmer052
Sandra Farmer :
Too many non-negotiables! I have none, I play it by ear!🤗😁
2026-08-29 01:21:10
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tawnybear1
tawnybear1 :
Absolutely overboard. Props to her for honesty and props to you for knowing she’s not for you right away
2026-08-28 17:32:59
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scorai5
Queen Raina ❤️❤️👄👄 :
Build a mike lmfaooooo!!!
2026-08-29 14:11:49
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just_katie_in_mn
Just Katie :
That's crazy 🤣
2026-08-28 16:02:05
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rochellereaumond
rochellereaumond :
Hi Mike
2026-08-31 20:47:20
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lerixia4
Lerixia :
lol
2026-09-03 18:10:29
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illtakeitneat
illtakeitneat :
I gotta be honest with you a list in non-negotiable should be OK. A super detailed list is kind of weird but why waste anyone’s time is my opinion.
2026-08-29 10:57:11
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beebrave07
Kerry B :
She must have been really hurt and deeply disappointed person. Good for her!!!! Go on girl!!!!
2026-09-01 00:26:06
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cmarsh298
CMarsh :
don't ask if you don't want us to be honest 🤦
2026-08-29 17:49:31
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ilovebutterflies75
Ilovebutterflies :
At least you know….
2026-08-29 16:52:26
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zonawhitewater
zonawhitewater :
I agree!! Red flags going up! You dodged a bullet for sure!
2026-08-29 05:14:46
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dawn_r062
DawnR :
I agree with being up front on non-negotiables and post my seven in my dating profile. They're pretty basic: single, biologically male, likes furry pets (I have cats), accepts my beliefs, lives locally, shares compatible values, interests, and lifestyle (doesn't need to be matchy matchy, but should align) and is open to becoming a committed long-term couple if it builds to that. I was also honest that I prefer talking to texting, am open to meeting for coffee, but believe in establishing a relationship before intimacy or invitations into my private life become options.
2026-08-29 20:48:18
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