@alinakennedy_: recently, I had a profound realization while reflecting on a situation from my past. I realized that much of my life had been spent as a people pleaser. After being mistreated by others, I often tried to compensate by being overly kind desperate to avoid conflict or disapproval. Now that I'm older, I feel a mix of regret and acceptance. I wish I had valued myself more, yet I also recognize that my kindness reflected who I was and who I still am. I will always choose kindness, but I now understand that being kind doesn't mean allowing others to take advantage of me. Some people will try to humble you through rudeness or unprofessional behavior. They may mistake your kindness for weakness, or act from jealousy and insecurity. I wish I had known sooner that not everyone deserves your time, energy, or presence. The countless times I apologized just to keep the peace-even when I wasn't at fault-should never have happened. When people are unkind, the best response is to remain composed and not absorb their negativity. But don't overcompensate as I once did-being overly nice to those who don't deserve it only drains your spirit. Instead, invest your energy in those who genuinely love, respect, and appreciate you. Never waste your light on people who fail to see its value. Continue to spread love, stay true to yourself, and never dim your light for anyone.

Alina K

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Friday 28 August 2026 16:23:59 GMT