Emily, LCSW
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Friday 28 August 2026 16:52:34 GMT
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Lexi Pollock :
Agreed!
2026-09-02 02:04:49
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Kim Deana :
In my mind she’s my friend, I’m just not hers 😂
2026-08-29 21:19:56
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frank.scobopolis :
I'm in the "relationship is the intervention" camp, but a big part of why it's needed is so that those hard conversations can take place safely
2026-08-28 22:52:10
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Richard Clark :
Having rapport is not being liked. Dancing (done well) is rapport. Boxing is rapport. Rapport is 2 people sharing an emotional experience intentionally.
2026-08-30 03:01:05
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Lisette 🪩 :
Can you please talk about mommy issues and wishing to have your therapist as your mom
2026-08-28 17:42:49
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Bri Johnson 🎀 ⸆⸉ :
Ok so I’m a little called out cause I use ChatGPT behind my therapists back 😭😭 like idk I like her and we have a good thing going but me ChatGPT go far far back 😭😭
2026-08-29 04:35:47
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Journey with Tamilla :
Agreed, the clients need to be challenged, but in a validating way
2026-09-01 00:06:36
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Rin Blake Author 📖📚 :
I’m still an intern but I’m glad my instructors have been very clear that we are not the clients friends, we are there to add value and they are customers. They do talk about rapport but they also grade us on confrontation , pattern recognition, Socratic questioning, etc. if the client doesn’t like that, that’s ok that’s another avenue to talk about. Why there’s resistance. Of course you have to build trust but we can’t build trust forever especially if insurance only covers like 3-8 sessions
2026-08-28 22:57:23
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Kati Hukill :
New therapist here who is totally afraid of confrontation in any way - how do I go about bringing those conversations up without it coming off as an attack of sorts? I know rapport can do a lot of heavy lifting, but what if I bring something up that ends up breaking the rapport? This is something that’s been weighing on my mind since I’ve started.
2026-08-28 17:18:18
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imeow4women :
I tried to lead group today with no rapport and it was complete blank faces and the main therapist took over I just felt so embarrassed and anxious after :( someone please tell me it gets better and this is normal cause omg 😭
2026-08-29 05:27:43
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Kovu service dog :
My therapist has the perfect amount fo being kind and supportive and also telling me when I am doing something stupid and acting in a way I shouldnt. she also gets me to look at things frkm a different view point.
2026-08-29 17:04:13
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⋆｡˚☽˚｡🧿Vivi🧿｡˚☾˚｡⋆ :
to me, hes kind human trying to help me through some hard stuff and its been working and I feel like myself more
2026-08-30 14:40:01
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Briana Whitted :
Rapport and psychological safety in order to have hard conversations are 2 totally different things!
2026-08-28 17:11:27
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Cordizzle :
I use Rogerian unconditional positive regard, and then begin to open myself into having challenging conversations so that they know that I still regard them as good people unconditionally. I have found this to be very effective in helping people open up about their experiences for further processing.
2026-08-30 02:18:20
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Jordanne l Therapist 🇨🇦 :
I had a therapist that I found slightly abrasive and kinda didn’t love but I saw him for a year and honestly it was some of the more helpful therapy I have had!
2026-08-31 04:52:25
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Miles :
I like my therapist to be kind and smart but have enough rough edges so I don't feel bad telling them when they pmo
2026-08-28 17:14:57
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🐞 :
Thank you for thisssss!! Just started as an LPCA and I needed to hear this after grad school
2026-08-30 01:06:34
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Polly.Pocket :
Weird you assume all they say is truth.
2026-08-29 01:43:07
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lexxunpackthat :
👏👏👏
2026-08-29 19:50:41
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