Bella Dane
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Lizt :
I think social media has ruined a lot of peoples views on relationships
2026-08-28 17:41:22
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Maggie :
That stuff on social media is brainwashing
2026-08-28 19:59:57
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lxilx :
We are all imperfect. Some things that may seem like red flags can just be someone being anxious, nervous, introverted, or just behave differently. Social media standards are unrealistic.
2026-08-28 17:44:15
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Dzseni | 💋 :
you don’t know how much I needed to hear this
2026-08-28 18:49:25
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Richa Singh :
🫶🫶🫶 I love you for making this video
2026-08-30 03:22:14
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señor senior sr. :
Thank youuuu. While we’re at it let’s acknowledge how “if he wanted to, he would” has been soo warped and misapplied
2026-08-28 19:37:52
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ola :
the red flag epidemic needs to go, seriously
2026-08-28 18:26:38
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laurajaye🪽 :
I don’t think you should ever IGNORE a red flag but you can recognise a red flag and almost put it in your pocket for later and maybe it’ll end up being important but maybe it’ll just be a genuine mistake made by that person. And I think you can forgive a red flag, given there’s a reason you find fair enough, but set a boundary in place whilst you do so. Saying like I’m gonna forgive this now because never mentioned before that it was an important boundary for me, but now I have and have made you aware, I won’t tolerate it again
2026-08-28 18:02:31
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C G :
Comparison is the thief of joy.
2026-08-30 00:14:14
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⏾⋆.˚ :
i wish everyone saw this video
2026-08-30 05:47:06
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Izzy Mederos :
this is some of the most real advice iv heard on this app thank you!
2026-08-30 04:52:53
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poshy :
we just need to stop letting social media dictate our relationships, every relationship (not just romantic) is intricate and unique
2026-08-28 22:05:19
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miss mango :
EXACTLY and this mindset combined with “as he/she should” is creating such a cold outlook towards relationships 😔
2026-08-28 22:09:47
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findingwealthandhealth :
as also a bit of personal improvement psycho i appreciate this perspective so much
2026-08-28 17:44:20
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🎸 :
i second this except in the case where you’ve experienced a certain “red flag” so many times it now makes you hyper vigilant. doesn’t even have to be cheating it js shows he does not care enough leave girls
2026-08-29 06:56:45
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ella 🫧 :
My biggest issue is like reacting right away and making something a huge deal before I realize it actually doesn’t matter and at that point we’re already arguing 😭😭like I’m so bad at taking a step back and realizing some things are like ok and not a big deal
2026-08-29 20:57:08
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🍸 :
Ur so smart
2026-08-28 17:43:37
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Peyton✨🤍 :
wait lowkey… a podcast ep on this would be fire
2026-08-29 02:34:08
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kinicka1155 :
red flags are about awareness
2026-08-29 12:11:00
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jumi :
I love listening to you girl you actually help my mentality so much
2026-08-28 21:41:21
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kathrynlapin :
First! Love your content. ❤️
2026-08-28 17:40:31
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brateesa :
You look like Margot Robbie 😍
2026-08-29 01:00:48
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Emrey :
yesss this. I have been married for a year now and I think a huge lesson I learned and something god put on my heart was that no relationship is perfect, we are all human. There is not a single soul on this planet that can love you and treat you EXACTLY the way you need. That is your job and God’s job if you believe. You cannot expect your relationships to meet all the marks, and many times, it is your responsibility to point out the places where they’re falling short. Many people want everything to perfectly align which is just unrealistic, strong relationships take work, building a relationship is like building a house one step at a time. And I think it’s important to remember, what makes you content can differ from what makes your partner content. I remember there came a time when I told my husband back when we were dating “I feel emotionally disconnected from you” And he was in shock because he didn’t feel that way. I expressed what I needed and he applied those changes! There is a huge handful of things my husband does now that he didn’t when we first started dating simply because I communicated those desires to him. People need to realize they have to stop sitting around and waiting for the perfect person to step up, because a lot of a relationship is building each other up and teaching each other how to love the other person in the way that they need.
2026-08-29 16:19:03
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chuchu-chuchu-chu :
Second hi!:)
2026-08-28 17:43:36
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