@growwithkaela: Dismissive avoidants do often have a roster. It’s validation and dopamine that doesn’t cost them anything… until it costs them to lose you. You have to be willing to decide where your boundaries are, and stick to them. Because they’ll typically push them as far as they can in order to not “feel controlled.”

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just__zachary
Insomnizach :
It sucks. Cuz the roster gets all the easy affection that your asking to be shown your loved
2026-08-28 23:38:35
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sapphosjewelry
sapphosjewelry :
Low key can someone send this to her
2026-10-02 04:29:58
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dottydina1
Dottydina :
thats just men got nowt to do with avoidants
2026-10-01 13:33:31
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josie.remour
Josie :
90% of the dating apps are full of these types of people.
2026-10-01 20:30:15
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theller86
Theller :
She gaslit me for years about her relationship with her coworker. Saying that I'm just too jealous and too controlling. She finally admitted that if he made a move she would've cheated on me with him years ago. So ya, lesson learned.
2026-10-01 15:41:03
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herholisticway
herholistix :
There is barely any difference between them and the narcs
2026-10-01 09:43:20
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postman.pat261
Bearded Postman Pat :
Been with my gf for 29 yrs and she has had ex flings,ex boyfriends,work colleagues,male friends the entire time 29 yrs.I have actually successfully found out about her cheating and when I told her how hurt I was her answer is always “ I’m sorry you feel that way”.Never sorry for what she did.
2026-08-31 02:58:00
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troyaj68
user3939450274940 :
Please do a Fearful Avoidant
2026-10-01 14:52:33
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karmaniyama
Kilian :
He stayed friends with every ex and women he went on dates with. He framed it as maturity but now I know better. He really couldn’t understand why I wouldn’t go back to being friends.
2026-09-21 03:42:05
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therapyog
Therapy :
so avoidants are just cheaters.
2026-09-20 19:10:43
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lisajo24
Lisa J ✨🖤 :
It’s sick and it hurts beyond belief.
2026-08-30 01:31:57
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outthewindowproductions
outthewindowproducti :
My avoidannt she is a therapist and her roster has become her male clients.
2026-08-30 00:48:17
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40more2020
JustbeingP :
Exhausting relationship…so exhausting.
2026-08-28 22:25:01
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kwirkee
Kwirkee :
This just connected all of the dots for me.
2026-08-30 21:26:40
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tnuhl
Tina :
They are compulsive cheaters. And if they get caught, they will hold on to anything they can to throw something in your face even if it was totally innocent. They make a scenario in their head that it wasn't innocent just to make themselves feel better.
2026-09-10 23:59:55
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inner.alchemy6
inner alchemy :
Exactly, it sucks that they get the love and attention while you get neglected and ignored .
2026-09-19 14:00:39
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gnocchi.the.whoodle
Gnocchi the Whoodle :
They’re so sad. They need help
2026-08-29 08:03:11
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rosieb346
Bridget :
100 percent spot on
2026-08-29 11:04:48
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agibson1482
agibson1482 :
wow! this sums him up perfectly
2026-08-29 16:08:28
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kathy.thomas98
Kathy Thomas :
this is exactly what I went through. after 5 years I disappeared to save myself.
2026-08-29 06:09:37
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b.jodrey
b.jodrey :
Called me a controlling Narcissist for getting upset she was literally sleeping with other men and going to visit her exes... tried to tell me it was good for our relationship... 🤔
2026-08-30 11:22:08
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sneakysausage111
sneakysausage111 :
And he wonders why I REFUSE to sleep with him even though he's knows I'm attracted to him. I flat out told him I'm not joining his haram. Which he claims he doesn't have. 🙄
2026-08-29 13:08:56
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saracsc1737
Sara :
Well this sounds painful 😢
2026-08-29 00:39:30
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goddessofkronos1
Amelia 🪶🧿⚖️ :
Also fearful avoidants
2026-08-28 20:54:49
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storytimeig00
SeaSalt :
how can I stop being a avoidant???
2026-08-28 21:51:59
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