@growwithkaela: Dismissive avoidants do often have a roster. It’s validation and dopamine that doesn’t cost them anything… until it costs them to lose you. You have to be willing to decide where your boundaries are, and stick to them. Because they’ll typically push them as far as they can in order to not “feel controlled.”
It sucks. Cuz the roster gets all the easy affection that your asking to be shown your loved
2026-08-28 23:38:35
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sapphosjewelry :
Low key can someone send this to her
2026-10-02 04:29:58
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Dottydina :
thats just men got nowt to do with avoidants
2026-10-01 13:33:31
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Josie :
90% of the dating apps are full of these types of people.
2026-10-01 20:30:15
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Theller :
She gaslit me for years about her relationship with her coworker. Saying that I'm just too jealous and too controlling. She finally admitted that if he made a move she would've cheated on me with him years ago. So ya, lesson learned.
2026-10-01 15:41:03
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herholistix :
There is barely any difference between them and the narcs
2026-10-01 09:43:20
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Bearded Postman Pat :
Been with my gf for 29 yrs and she has had ex flings,ex boyfriends,work colleagues,male friends the entire time 29 yrs.I have actually successfully found out about her cheating and when I told her how hurt I was her answer is always “ I’m sorry you feel that way”.Never sorry for what she did.
2026-08-31 02:58:00
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user3939450274940 :
Please do a Fearful Avoidant
2026-10-01 14:52:33
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Kilian :
He stayed friends with every ex and women he went on dates with. He framed it as maturity but now I know better. He really couldn’t understand why I wouldn’t go back to being friends.
2026-09-21 03:42:05
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Therapy :
so avoidants are just cheaters.
2026-09-20 19:10:43
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Lisa J ✨🖤 :
It’s sick and it hurts beyond belief.
2026-08-30 01:31:57
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outthewindowproducti :
My avoidannt she is a therapist and her roster has become her male clients.
2026-08-30 00:48:17
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JustbeingP :
Exhausting relationship…so exhausting.
2026-08-28 22:25:01
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Kwirkee :
This just connected all of the dots for me.
2026-08-30 21:26:40
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Tina :
They are compulsive cheaters. And if they get caught, they will hold on to anything they can to throw something in your face even if it was totally innocent. They make a scenario in their head that it wasn't innocent just to make themselves feel better.
2026-09-10 23:59:55
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inner alchemy :
Exactly, it sucks that they get the love and attention while you get neglected and ignored .
2026-09-19 14:00:39
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Gnocchi the Whoodle :
They’re so sad. They need help
2026-08-29 08:03:11
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Bridget :
100 percent spot on
2026-08-29 11:04:48
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agibson1482 :
wow! this sums him up perfectly
2026-08-29 16:08:28
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Kathy Thomas :
this is exactly what I went through. after 5 years I disappeared to save myself.
2026-08-29 06:09:37
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b.jodrey :
Called me a controlling Narcissist for getting upset she was literally sleeping with other men and going to visit her exes... tried to tell me it was good for our relationship... 🤔
2026-08-30 11:22:08
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sneakysausage111 :
And he wonders why I REFUSE to sleep with him even though he's knows I'm attracted to him. I flat out told him I'm not joining his haram. Which he claims he doesn't have. 🙄
2026-08-29 13:08:56
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Sara :
Well this sounds painful 😢
2026-08-29 00:39:30
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Amelia 🪶🧿⚖️ :
Also fearful avoidants
2026-08-28 20:54:49
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SeaSalt :
how can I stop being a avoidant???
2026-08-28 21:51:59
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